Was he like this (into softball and the internet) before you got married or is this a recent development? If its not, what caused him to become more obsessed with it than he was before? Have you guys sat down and had a heart-to-heart about it? If you tell him in a loving way about how hurt you are by his inattention, do you think he may want to adapt his schedule to include you in it more often?
Anyway, if you are unable to discuss it with him without it getting heated and angry (by either one of you), you should probably seek out some marriage counseling.
Yes, he did play softball b4 we met, but it didn't take up every aspect of his life. He says that since I don't complain about it he figures I wouldn't mind if he stepped up the playing time, but then if I do bring it up he gets mad, so it's a lose,lose 4 me either way I look at it. I understand that he luvs it & its great that he has such a passion for sumthing, I wud just like to not b an after thought.
He should have just as much a passion for you girly. I don't get as much attention from my husband as I'd like, but its different than your situation. As for you not going out anymore to avoid the bullshit, that's not cool!! He can go out and not get shit for it so you should too. Don't let him pull that crap! Put some pants on, hike 'em up, and tell him how fucking selfish he is. You may just have to leave his sorry ass.
Is it normal for a husband to be so selfish
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Was he like this (into softball and the internet) before you got married or is this a recent development? If its not, what caused him to become more obsessed with it than he was before? Have you guys sat down and had a heart-to-heart about it? If you tell him in a loving way about how hurt you are by his inattention, do you think he may want to adapt his schedule to include you in it more often?
Anyway, if you are unable to discuss it with him without it getting heated and angry (by either one of you), you should probably seek out some marriage counseling.
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Yes, he did play softball b4 we met, but it didn't take up every aspect of his life. He says that since I don't complain about it he figures I wouldn't mind if he stepped up the playing time, but then if I do bring it up he gets mad, so it's a lose,lose 4 me either way I look at it. I understand that he luvs it & its great that he has such a passion for sumthing, I wud just like to not b an after thought.
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He should have just as much a passion for you girly. I don't get as much attention from my husband as I'd like, but its different than your situation. As for you not going out anymore to avoid the bullshit, that's not cool!! He can go out and not get shit for it so you should too. Don't let him pull that crap! Put some pants on, hike 'em up, and tell him how fucking selfish he is. You may just have to leave his sorry ass.