Is it normal for a healthy, 21 year old female to have no libido?
I'm a generally healthy 21 year old. I mean, not the healthiest, but I'm a healthy weight and have never really been any better. Moving on. A few years ago, maybe back when I was hitting 19 my libido drastically dropped. By the time I was 20 I had absolutely none. I've been trying to get it back, as I have been in a relationship for almost 4 years. So I've wanted to ask, is it normal for a woman my age to have a loss of libido. Kinda seems like the non-ideal age to be losing that type of thing, on a biological point of view. I've been thinking it could be my birth control or my boyfriends dick nearly impaling me multiple times in the beginning. Sounds like a joke, but it's not. Not sure if that is the cause of my libido loss or my libido loss is the cause of that. Anyway, please don't respond if you are one of those people who think women don't have high libidos to begin with, because I used to be as horny as a rabbit. I just want someone who might understand me.