Is it normal for a guy to think about a girl everyday for this long

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There is a girl who I used to go to school with, and I haven't seen in nearly three years. It started when she liked me, and later on I started to like her but she didn't like me anymore, just stupid high school stuff. Anyway, I haven't seen her since nearly three years ago yet I still think about her for at least a few hours each day. I have deeply seated romantic feelings for her and find myself fantasizing about her for much of my time. I feel my emotions are stronger than they were when I was actually in the physical presence of her. I try to think of other girls but my thoughts always go back to her and I cannot get her out of my head. I am pretty social inept, having no friends or confidants, and feeling lonely. Is it normal that these feelings have lasted, and continue to last, this long?

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  • DhGlory
    12 years ago | pl

    ButtSecks?

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  • helenjewett
    12 years ago | pl

    it's time to move on. you're absolutely infatuated with her. it's ok. we all were like that at some point in our lives.

    you need to put yourself out there and find another girl, friends, or new hobbies!

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  • cami0423
    12 years ago | pl

    call the high school the two of you attended, arrange a meeting. ask them if they have her file and whats listed as her emergency contact number. call the number and see what happens. if the phone line isnt in service ask for an adress:) problem solved. ps. be cool u dont want to sound like a stalker. also try finding her on facebook 10 bucks says shes a member!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago | pl

      Why would I want to find her?

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