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Me and this guy I'm dating have had sex a fair few times now, but he's never finished. We can keep going for a while and I know he enjoys it but I'm worried something is wrong.
My friend says it might be because he gets himself off too much.
Is it normal??
sounds like he may be overactive, but it couls also be that he gets off to quick and has learned thast pleasuring himself before the fact can allow him to last so long. it is a selfless act and if thats the case then enjoy it.
ask him if it is one of these 2
things, because you feel self consious and just a bit guilty that he never gets off with you.
tell him you are concerned you are not enough for him. that should get the truth out of him either way but be careful what you wish for.
my partner and i are both big masturbators and we both notice it sometimes when we cant cum and it can be annoying when you want to cum. but sometimes its good to be able to go on pleasuring your partner as long as they like.
It's natural for a boy to try and hold finishing for as long as possible to please the girl...i think maybe he does get himself off too much so he can last but i think he'll probably need a bit of help getting there so ask him if theres something you can do to help him get there quicker! Try kissing his ear, always works for me ;)
Its normal for some people to have sex for long periods of time, but usually guys get off... Have you asked him how come he doesnt, or if there is anything you can do to make sure he goes also? No two people are alike when it comes to sex, so there could be many reasons. The only thing you can do is be honest & ask.