Is it normal for a guy to last 4 hours in his first time?

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See the thing is i like this guy and we were in a relationship and well we finally decided to do it
I was a virgin not sure about him
But he told me he was
Now the thing is that whenever we kissed he knew all these techniques and stuff so i asked him where he learned and he said internet and i believed him
Now when we had sex he lasted for 4 frigging hours and had 3 errections during this time
When i asked him he again said that he really is a virgin and learned on net
But i found it very hard to believe that he actually learned through porn and got so much better
Im even started to believe that hes some kinda con man playboy
I had a fight with him
But anyways i was still wondering... Is it possible hes not lying? And actually was a virgin???

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  • Gelmurag
    11 years ago | pl

    "Now when we had sex he lasted for 4 frigging hours and had 3 errections during this time"

    I've always been under the impression, the "time" factor is based off of ONE continuous erection, with no breaks. If he needed to take a break, even if only 5-10 minutes, that is still an interruption in the time. (for orgasm, pee, food, etc.)

    so of that 4 hours, he spent 15-30 minutes in down time. So he really only did it for 3 and a half hours.

    My first time was an hour and a half continuous, and afterwards My mind was still horny, and still wanting to play with her. I was so nervous I was almost shaking. So other than the definition of "how long it took" everything else seems normal.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago | pl

    Wait a sec? He had 3 continuous erections and climaxes?

    Was he a horse? Because for humans that is impossible unless he took about 10 viagra beforehand.

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
      11 years ago | pl

      or overseas viagra. i've been told it's a bit strong compared to the stuff in the US.

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      • WordWizard
        11 years ago | pl

        What are you talking about? They have Viagra in the US!

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        • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
          11 years ago | pl

          I never said they didn't.

          From what I've been told the viagra in foreign markets is somewhat stronger than the FDA-approved versions. Stronger as in "jerking off doesn't make the erection go away".

          although at that point it's usually painful too.

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    • Drumroll
      11 years ago | pl

      3 errections yes but rested for 5-10 mins in between each...

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      • drbishop
        11 years ago | pl

        there is nothing special about 3 erections if you are young, and also nothing special about knowing some stuff about a girl's body before you have sex with any. He is not necessarily a liar.

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      • ozzyy18
        10 years ago | pl

        yeah i try it once before

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      • [Old Memory]
        11 years ago | pl

        In all honesty I kinda find this hard to believe, I dont really care whether it happened or not, but I have heard many stories like this before and they are almost always bullshit.

        3 erections maybe, but on that third one he must have been firing blanks.

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  • ozzyy18
    10 years ago | pl

    yup its a lie, you could last more than 1hr though. when i had sex for the first time i last for 1hr or so

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago | pl

    My boyfriends going to hate me for posting this!!! But he lasted a long time our 1st time to, my pussy was fucking sooorreeee. He lasted so bloody long cause he was nervous lol which is a normal reaction. He got erections easy to BECUASE he was a virgin, not cause he was experienced like you're assuming. Do you even know him that well since you gave your V-card to him? If you do know him well, drop your suspicions and reflect on the kind of person he is. If you don't know him that well.. It's kindof your own fault for the jumpping the gun.

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  • misca
    11 years ago | pl

    4 hours? That must have been the most boring sex act ever.

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  • Imsupernormal
    11 years ago | pl

    He's a straight up liar. No virgin is that good in bed the first time.

    He just told you he was a virgin so you would be more willing to have sex with him.

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  • prasatko
    11 years ago | pl

    As for the techniques, of course he might be "naturally gifted" without any previous practise and experience or he might have picked some useful tips from the Internet or other sources. I wouldn´t blame him that he was not helpless in bed. And lasting for hours (with repeated erections and ejaculations) is common for young men who have sex for the first time (or are sexually frustrated due to abstinence). My advice would be: do not be angry with him for that.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago | pl

    It's possible he lied. Frankly I don't really expect male virgins to be "mr magic" in bed, just from studying books and videos.

    You also may have to consider that he could be a virgin... but has had sexual experiences - just not vaginal sex - with other women. (or men)

    Many virgins do not consider things such as foreplay, oral sex, and sometimes anal sex, to count when calling themselves a virgin.

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    • WordWizard
      11 years ago | pl

      Well this is possible if he had girlfriends. Apparently people who have made out before are still very good in bed regardless of it being first time. Also they do have videos on the internet but they are not very good "Most are just people kissing".

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
        11 years ago | pl

        maybe... or maybe not.

        then again as i said before, you can be very sexually active but still a virgin. all "virgin" really means is that there wasn't vaginal penetration. so he could be having oral or anal sex and still be a technical virgin

        or he could be right out lying

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt
    11 years ago | pl

    Everyone is different.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago | pl

    My frist time was 2 hours before I gave up. It's all about nerves.

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