As most people here have said, gender should be fairly irrelevant; a person assaulting another person without a valid reason is in the wrong.
If, however, you made direct threats towards him, his property or somebody he cares about, the situation changes slightly; that in my opinion COULD be a valid reason.
I think we'd need more details on the content of the argument to give you an accurate answer. If it was simply a "you're so annoying!" type argument, then the guy was entirely out of order for losing his temper and being violent. If it was a "I'm going to stab your sister in the fucking vagina! I know where she lives!" type argument, perhaps he has a leg or two to stand on...
Well we had been drinking and he decided he wanted to go get some drugs so I went with him but it was raining and we were just going in circles so I decided I would rather go home. He flipped out on me, I can't remember exactly what we said during the fight but it was something alone the lines of him being a drug addict
Well what more do you want to know? I'm not completely helpless, I can walk by myself... besides I live in a city, it is easy to catch a taxi (which is what I did). I'll answer any and all questions that you have but I think I explained the situation pretty well. I think you are just trying to blame me or perhaps find a logical reason for the fight. The only logical reason is that we were intoxicated which I don't think is a good excuse. Regardless I have since forgiven him, I just don't feel as close as I use to with him.
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As most people here have said, gender should be fairly irrelevant; a person assaulting another person without a valid reason is in the wrong.
If, however, you made direct threats towards him, his property or somebody he cares about, the situation changes slightly; that in my opinion COULD be a valid reason.
I think we'd need more details on the content of the argument to give you an accurate answer. If it was simply a "you're so annoying!" type argument, then the guy was entirely out of order for losing his temper and being violent. If it was a "I'm going to stab your sister in the fucking vagina! I know where she lives!" type argument, perhaps he has a leg or two to stand on...
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Well we had been drinking and he decided he wanted to go get some drugs so I went with him but it was raining and we were just going in circles so I decided I would rather go home. He flipped out on me, I can't remember exactly what we said during the fight but it was something alone the lines of him being a drug addict
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If he was just angry you said he was a drug addict, then that seems like a bad excuse to hit someone. By the sounds of it, he was in the wrong.
Your relationship doesn't sound too healthy...
Perhaps he was drove most of the way, and it would take him forever to take you home and come back?
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So, he had to walk you home then walk back?
I think there is something you are not telling us, you seem to be tip-toeing around, giving short answers. That's just my opinion.
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Well what more do you want to know? I'm not completely helpless, I can walk by myself... besides I live in a city, it is easy to catch a taxi (which is what I did). I'll answer any and all questions that you have but I think I explained the situation pretty well. I think you are just trying to blame me or perhaps find a logical reason for the fight. The only logical reason is that we were intoxicated which I don't think is a good excuse. Regardless I have since forgiven him, I just don't feel as close as I use to with him.