Is it normal for a guy to get hard just by looking at a girl he likes?

So I'm a girl and a guy in my class had a boner in the middle of the lecture, I noticed he was staring at me and... It got worse.

I asked two of my male friends about the situation and one told me that the guy must ve been having some really intense fantasy and the other one told me that it's not normal at all, so I'm still confused.

What kind of thing is going on with this guy? He never outright showed any major attraction to me before that day, we talked normally and got along well. I am not even pretty or dress sexy or anything

Is It Normal?
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  • He may've been thinking about someone else and you just happened to be sitting in front of him.

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  • Could have been coincidence, maybe he was looking around hoping no one noticed

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  • It's probably just fantasies. I've had fantasies about a person I like, not in front of them, but yeah. There is a chance they just like you and are fantasising about stuff. Most likely weird and sex related stuff, but still. I don't find it that weird.

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  • Most guys get random boners during class from time to time, it wasn't necessarily your fault, he could just be looking around acting like normal.

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  • This makes me glad I'm a girl. I don't have to worry about 'some dick' making shit awkward for me. It has to suck daydreaming about something and then having to suppress your shit all the time.

    Not that this applies to this guy so much. Staring is rude, boner is uncomfortable, but Staring+Boner=Nasty

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  • If he was staring at you, that's strange. Having a boner is normal.

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  • It happens to me all the time

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  • I get hard all the time, just by thinking even, im very needy

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  • It's normal and natural. Teen boys can get erections even if they don't fantasise about anything. But of course they do fantasise a lot. And you looking at him making it worse is also normal. It didn't mean he's into you, but I bet he is

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  • I will never get a boner looking at anyone. I am just pathetic

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  • I get hard watching my fav female celebrities all the time. I used to have for Scarlet Johnson, now my fav is Emma Stone, shes so hot makes me hard all the time <3, but I have crush on many celebrates who when dressed in a reveling way makes me hard. However random everyday women dont make me so hard, and In real life I am highly committed to my girl friend whom I love more than anything in the world...

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  • Do you like him? If so why not talk to him see if he wants to go on a date or whatever it is young people do these days. We’re not living 100 years ago, girls are allowed to make the first move these days. Even in my day if I liked a guy and he wasn’t getting the message I would make a move on him.

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  • I'm sure it didn't help matters that you were looking at his crotch often enough to know that his erection was getting "worse" (by which I assume you mean bigger).

    Guys in their teens and early twenties get erections all the time. Men have no control over erections, and once we get a random boner, we can't just wish it away. If we manage to ignore it, then it will fade after a while, but trying to get rid of an erection by not thinking about it is like the "Don't think about elephants," thing.

    And, yeah, he may have been having a fantasy about you. You may find that yucky, but people do that. (Although women can do so much more discreetly.) How you look and what you were wearing is irrelevant. You say you're not pretty, but not all guys are obsessed with pretty, and maybe you're his type, or you remind him of someone he associates with sex.

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  • What do you mean worse? It is something normal, regardless of your body. If you are interested in him, do something about it. If not, ignore this.

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