Is it normal for a guy to be this protective?

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my x friends with benefits is becoming super protective of me. When I party with your friends he follows me around and asks me all the time where I went if he has not see me around. I try to give him room to talk to other girls but he is far up my ass anyways. So, he ends up ignoring the girls anyways. He tries to ask me for favors on the days I have date. It ends up being around the time I am suppose to leave for the date. Everyone of your friends have notice it is getting worse with this over protectiveness. Why is he doing this?

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  • joybird
    12 years ago | pl

    Stop having sex with him coz you're just encouraging him. He's a control freak, don't be fooled by him saying he feels protective of you. Bullshit! Stay well away from him and please be careful around him.

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago | pl

    He doesn't like the idea of anybody else having you; might be cause he like you, might just be being possessive.

    I disagree with people above saying he wants to be more than friends; it is not necessarily the case. Could simply be much like a kid biting when you touch his toy and then jumping to another toy as soon as you let this one be.

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  • Faceless
    12 years ago | pl

    He does this because hes not attached to you at all, he doesnt even care or have feelings for you and mostly because he hates you. GAH! How can people be so dumb?

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    • teardrop06
      12 years ago | pl

      Why would a guy act that way cuz he is mad. He is the one who got a gf which ended the benefits part.So, I moved on and got friends.

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    • Tehboss
      12 years ago | pl

      maybe they take classes? been wondering the same!

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      • teardrop06
        12 years ago | pl

        We used to work together. And both of us graduate from high school. We are in your mid 20z.

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  • Bandy-Mandy
    12 years ago | pl

    Get rid of him! he's a control freak!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    how do you know my friends?

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  • randomjelly
    12 years ago | pl

    Quit fucking him then.

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    • teardrop06
      12 years ago | pl

      I havent had sex w/ him in 2 months. He just got out of a relationship that only lasted a few wks. He just started to doing this super protective thing for the past 2 wks. he was protective of me when we did have sex but it has gotten worse since we stopped. He makes sure I am never around any other guys unless he is around.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    You're not his possession, so you should tell him to take a hike and end your physical relationship with him.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago | pl

    For some reason this reminds me of the movie, When Harry met Sally. Even though they weren't really friends with benefits. They actually hated each other.

    I don't know, I just have a feeling he really likes you, and you might fall for him too, but in time. And I think what icanhascheezburger said was right. You can't have casual sex with someone, and think that there's no possibility of them actually having feelings for you. Thats why in my world, there is no such thing as friends with benefits.

    If you don't feel the same way, explain to him the truth.

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  • yourfuckinghero
    12 years ago | pl

    Yeah, your friend is developing feelings and you should be really honest about it if you don't return those feelings.

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  • icanhascheezburger
    12 years ago | pl

    Well people who tend to have sex with each other, someone is bound to develop feelings.. You can't just have casual sex and not expect that, it never works out. He probably sees you more then just a friend at this point so of course he's going to be possessive and jealous.

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