Is it normal for a guy to be this much into the gossip?

Thanks for your comment. The thing is, I don't care about him listening in, we don't talk about any secretive stuff or anything, but it is the way he treats my husband that bothers me.

Also, in the past, my sister used to invte me when her husband wasn't home. At the time I thought it was weird, but it now makes sense. Because she must know what he is like...