Heya dude. You are not alone. I know plenty of people that feels like they are born in the wrong body and rather identify themselves as the other gender.
You should really not care if you would look good as a woman or not. Experiment with clothes, wigs and what not!
Embrace this side of you instead of concidering it to be weird/wrong because it wont go away.
You are you, thats´all you can ever hope to become.
I guess I do feel like that, it's a classic case, you know?
I do worry about it a lot, and question. I feel like it'll never be 'real' no matter what I do, to me or to other people, I'm afraid women might despise me for trying to be like them when I'll never actually be one of them.
Of course, I worry about what people in general will think too: friends, family (I'm especially worried about judgement from my parents and the like) and to be honest I do feel really weird about myself. I mean, I'm hairy, I have balls, so what am I thinking? Seems like pretty normal stuff to worry about for someone with a pretty abnormal psyche, I guess, but I don't know how to face all these issues.
Once again you are not alone. The feeling of knowing that no matter what you do you wont be a ´real´woman, nor will you feel like a male to the fullest. I don´t know where you live so i have no idea about how acceptable it is to be transgender or transexual out in the open.
But i will say this: If they are real friends, they should not care even the slightest about what you are. If they like you for who you are they should accept this as well.Otherwise its no use to keep being friends with them.
If you truly feel strongly about this you can undergo surgery, but i really do think that maybe growing your hair out and dressing a bit more feminine might just be a way to start.
Myself, as a woman (Then again im much more mature and tolerant than most other people) i don´t really care how people wish to look. You are not hurting yourself or others and if you try to surpress this side of yourself you will really just end up miserable :/
Thanks for the advice, (s)aint! I've been thinking of taking some 'baby steps' like that for a while now; I don't think I can change my wants, like you said, and I don't want to be miserable. It helps a LOT to hear reassurances from somebody talking directly to myself, so thanks for that, too. :)
IIN for a guy to be attracted to women but be jealous of their looks?
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Heya dude. You are not alone. I know plenty of people that feels like they are born in the wrong body and rather identify themselves as the other gender.
You should really not care if you would look good as a woman or not. Experiment with clothes, wigs and what not!
Embrace this side of you instead of concidering it to be weird/wrong because it wont go away.
You are you, thats´all you can ever hope to become.
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Thanks for the kind words!
I guess I do feel like that, it's a classic case, you know?
I do worry about it a lot, and question. I feel like it'll never be 'real' no matter what I do, to me or to other people, I'm afraid women might despise me for trying to be like them when I'll never actually be one of them.
Of course, I worry about what people in general will think too: friends, family (I'm especially worried about judgement from my parents and the like) and to be honest I do feel really weird about myself. I mean, I'm hairy, I have balls, so what am I thinking? Seems like pretty normal stuff to worry about for someone with a pretty abnormal psyche, I guess, but I don't know how to face all these issues.
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Once again you are not alone. The feeling of knowing that no matter what you do you wont be a ´real´woman, nor will you feel like a male to the fullest. I don´t know where you live so i have no idea about how acceptable it is to be transgender or transexual out in the open.
But i will say this: If they are real friends, they should not care even the slightest about what you are. If they like you for who you are they should accept this as well.Otherwise its no use to keep being friends with them.
If you truly feel strongly about this you can undergo surgery, but i really do think that maybe growing your hair out and dressing a bit more feminine might just be a way to start.
Myself, as a woman (Then again im much more mature and tolerant than most other people) i don´t really care how people wish to look. You are not hurting yourself or others and if you try to surpress this side of yourself you will really just end up miserable :/
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Thanks for the advice, (s)aint! I've been thinking of taking some 'baby steps' like that for a while now; I don't think I can change my wants, like you said, and I don't want to be miserable. It helps a LOT to hear reassurances from somebody talking directly to myself, so thanks for that, too. :)
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No worries! Hopefully you'll find yourself and gain hapiness and such. Also, a personal opinion:Femboys are HOT so you just go for it (Y)
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Thanks for the wishes.
I agree! XD