Is it normal for a guy to act like this?

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Well I have a problem. I made out with my best friend. I'm a girl he's a guy. I was super drunk and we started kissing. He got to feel my boobs and see them but that's about it. I was drunk, he wasn't... After it happened we talked about it and he was like you're a good kisser and that he thought I was very pretty. The problem is after that he has been very mean and standoffish to me. He won't talk to me and if he does he's really horrible to me. He's asked me to hang out since it happened and every time we are supposed to I'll text him to make the plans and he won't answer. Is that normal for me to be upset? Honestly I don't like him more than just a best friend. We are super close and we are both about to go to college so we are pretty mature. I've known him forever and every since high school he has asked me to make out with him just for fun. It finally happened and now he won't talk to me. I don't know how to get things like the way they were before. Is it normal for your best friend to act like that after you kissed?

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Based on 41 votes (27 yes)
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  • liss001
    13 years ago

    Why are you still trying to see him - find someone who respects you

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  • tadpole2froggy
    13 years ago

    WTH you were drunk and he took advantage of you!(Well thats what I consider it to be anyways?) How can you call him your bestfriend? Do what you want. He dosent sound worth it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Kellstar might be right. or he maybe fell in love with you or something like that so he try to avoid you. just talk to him dammit...

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  • mydriasis
    13 years ago

    you ugly, right?

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  • kellstar
    13 years ago

    Or he is embarrased by the whole situation

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  • koifish
    13 years ago

    He might have deeper feelings for you and trying to get rid of them.

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  • candysweetemo
    13 years ago

    im sorry and sad to say but it is normal...for some men to act like that. But I think, both of us know that he is, in a sense, using you for his own pleasure because of that drinking incident, even if you didn't mean anything about that. He already thinks youre an easy lay. It's normal for some to act like that, but better people don't. In my opinion...if you want to preserve what remains in the friendship, is to distance yourself from him. Tell him, if you really mean that he's nothing more than best friend to you, that what he is doing to you is hurtful and abusive. If he cannot take the honesty, then he shouldn't be your friend in the first place. Then give him space and let him stew in it. Trust me, in my experience, it works.

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  • Devilsummoner
    13 years ago

    normal.

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