She at least likes me as a person. We have 2 classes together and we talk several times a day on school days. I'm pretty sure she has my number but I don't have hers. We've never hung out together, not even in a group.
Okay then. Let's be frank here. School's ending soon and I know you don't have the guts to look past social status and you probably won't ask her out. But you should. I was like you once. I was too afraid to say anything, even to the girl that I liked. I knew she liked me too, but I blew it. I messed up big time and I don't want that to happen to anyone else.
Here's your gameplan, tiger.
You should go to school tomorrow with some flowers, go up to her, and ask her out. Don't even bother to do it privately. If you do that, it shows weakness. Women don't like weakness. Do it in front of her friends. You should also say something cute that gets her friends to say, "Aww!" The way to any woman's heart is through her friends. She'll have no choice but to say yes. You guys will go on a date together and that's when you'll have a chance to reel her in for real. Be funny and be a gentleman. Take her out somewhere where the both of you can talk and do something fun with each other. Bowling or mini-golf are good examples of that. Don't take her out to a movie. You can't charm her while the both of you are watching a movie. Besides, that shit's expensive as hell.
I know this all sounds like a lot. It is. Who ever said getting a woman was easy?
TL;DR - Be confident, be yourself, be funny, and be a gentleman.
I really hope you follow my advice because I don't want another young man such as yourself making the same mistakes I did. Good luck, tiger. Go out and get her.
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Knight Nigel Wellington XXI
P.S. My last paragraph was really sappy. To make up for it, I've decided to say this:
You better grow a fucking pair of balls and ask her the fuck out alright? Right now, you have no balls. Grow some right the fuck now and go ask that bitch out. If you don't, I'll be ashamed of you and all my efforts would be for naught.
P.S.S. If (emphasis on the "if") you do ask her out and she says yes, please tell me how your date goes.
I'm not doing it tommorow, in public, or with flowers lol, but I'll certainly consider asking her. Thing is I still really don't know if she likes me. In fact my guess would be she doesnt "like me" the way I like her, but I don't really give a fuck about that I just want her to say yes if I ask her out. I appreciate the advice. If I do end up asking her I'll reply to this and let you know. Thanks guy
You should really get flowers to ask her out. Between you and me, those flowers will guilt trip her. She'll see that you spent money on her and she thinks she'd be an ass if she says, "No." So she'll say yes and then that's when you use your charm to win her over.
If you don't have flowers or anything, she could say yes, but you have a lower chance compared to if you did get flowers.
MAKE SURE TO ASK HER IN FRONT OF HER FRIENDS.
The point of all this is to guilt trip her. It sounds harsh, but it's honestly the only way to get a woman who isn't THAT attracted to you.
I had those exact same thoughts before I asked my current girlfriend out. I didn't know whether or not she liked me, and I was afraid of rejection. I'm sure you've heard this before but you gotta take a few risks in life. You can't wait for stuff to be handed to you. I know these are just words coming from a stranger on the internet, but you should really listen to it and follow it.
So yeah, go and ask her out, tiger. I'm rooting for you.
Signed,
Knight Nigel Wellington XXI
P.S. If you guys get married, can I be your best man?
Does she like talking to you? And has she done anything to show that she's interested in you? Do you see her outside of school? Also, how long do you have until school ends?
She likes talking to me enough to initiate conversation a decent amount (although I initiate it more), and she certainly keeps conversations going when I start them.
In terms of any specific instances where I thought she might like me: the day of prom (a formal end of year dance in America) she asked if I was going, which I wasn't. Idk about someone as outgoing as her, but I'd only ask that if I intended to say "save me a dance" or something to that effect. Also when I first got a twitter she immediately sent me a flirty tweet and favorited my response. Again something I'd only do if I were interested in a girl, but idk about her since she talks to guys on twitter all the time. She also sometimes refers to me by a nickname of mine that very few girls call me and that generally only my closer friends use. Also one day she walked into class with a friend of hers that I actually am friendly with (I don't have this friends number btw but she has mine) and they were discussing the girl I like's list of boyfriends she would want, which she could have brought up in that moment to make me jealous, although that's not certain. At one point in this conversation there was definitely some non-verbal communication and I know for a fact that the girl I like's friend looked at me. So they could have been implying I was on the list but that's not certain. Finally the girl I like's best friend (different friend than the one i already mentioned) occasionaly will gently tease her when we talk in class, and I swear one time after we were done talking i heard her friend say "boyfrieeend", so in general I've sensed very light teasing of the girl I like by her friends when I'm around.
I absolutely never see her outside of school, EVER. We travel in different social circles, we've never hung out, and again I think she has my number but I don't have her's. The only time I might see her outside of school is on the last day of school when my whole grade goes to the same beach. Last day of school is June 26th. Thanks your majesty.
Oh, you thought I was British? I thought YOU were British the whole time!
She's interested in you man. I know that for sure. But she's interested in other guys too. You better be the first one to ask her out or other guys will pick her up.
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She at least likes me as a person. We have 2 classes together and we talk several times a day on school days. I'm pretty sure she has my number but I don't have hers. We've never hung out together, not even in a group.
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So yeah, I really want to help you out here, man. Please reply to me at your earliest convenience.
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Okay um, I'm replying. I'm not sure what you mean since I've been replying. Are you bullsh*ting me lol? If you have any advice please fire away.
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Okay then. Let's be frank here. School's ending soon and I know you don't have the guts to look past social status and you probably won't ask her out. But you should. I was like you once. I was too afraid to say anything, even to the girl that I liked. I knew she liked me too, but I blew it. I messed up big time and I don't want that to happen to anyone else.
Here's your gameplan, tiger.
You should go to school tomorrow with some flowers, go up to her, and ask her out. Don't even bother to do it privately. If you do that, it shows weakness. Women don't like weakness. Do it in front of her friends. You should also say something cute that gets her friends to say, "Aww!" The way to any woman's heart is through her friends. She'll have no choice but to say yes. You guys will go on a date together and that's when you'll have a chance to reel her in for real. Be funny and be a gentleman. Take her out somewhere where the both of you can talk and do something fun with each other. Bowling or mini-golf are good examples of that. Don't take her out to a movie. You can't charm her while the both of you are watching a movie. Besides, that shit's expensive as hell.
I know this all sounds like a lot. It is. Who ever said getting a woman was easy?
TL;DR - Be confident, be yourself, be funny, and be a gentleman.
I really hope you follow my advice because I don't want another young man such as yourself making the same mistakes I did. Good luck, tiger. Go out and get her.
Signed,
Knight Nigel Wellington XXI
P.S. My last paragraph was really sappy. To make up for it, I've decided to say this:
You better grow a fucking pair of balls and ask her the fuck out alright? Right now, you have no balls. Grow some right the fuck now and go ask that bitch out. If you don't, I'll be ashamed of you and all my efforts would be for naught.
P.S.S. If (emphasis on the "if") you do ask her out and she says yes, please tell me how your date goes.
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I'm not doing it tommorow, in public, or with flowers lol, but I'll certainly consider asking her. Thing is I still really don't know if she likes me. In fact my guess would be she doesnt "like me" the way I like her, but I don't really give a fuck about that I just want her to say yes if I ask her out. I appreciate the advice. If I do end up asking her I'll reply to this and let you know. Thanks guy
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You should really get flowers to ask her out. Between you and me, those flowers will guilt trip her. She'll see that you spent money on her and she thinks she'd be an ass if she says, "No." So she'll say yes and then that's when you use your charm to win her over.
If you don't have flowers or anything, she could say yes, but you have a lower chance compared to if you did get flowers.
MAKE SURE TO ASK HER IN FRONT OF HER FRIENDS.
The point of all this is to guilt trip her. It sounds harsh, but it's honestly the only way to get a woman who isn't THAT attracted to you.
Signed,
Knight Nigel Wellington XXI
I had those exact same thoughts before I asked my current girlfriend out. I didn't know whether or not she liked me, and I was afraid of rejection. I'm sure you've heard this before but you gotta take a few risks in life. You can't wait for stuff to be handed to you. I know these are just words coming from a stranger on the internet, but you should really listen to it and follow it.
So yeah, go and ask her out, tiger. I'm rooting for you.
Signed,
Knight Nigel Wellington XXI
P.S. If you guys get married, can I be your best man?
Does she like talking to you? And has she done anything to show that she's interested in you? Do you see her outside of school? Also, how long do you have until school ends?
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She likes talking to me enough to initiate conversation a decent amount (although I initiate it more), and she certainly keeps conversations going when I start them.
In terms of any specific instances where I thought she might like me: the day of prom (a formal end of year dance in America) she asked if I was going, which I wasn't. Idk about someone as outgoing as her, but I'd only ask that if I intended to say "save me a dance" or something to that effect. Also when I first got a twitter she immediately sent me a flirty tweet and favorited my response. Again something I'd only do if I were interested in a girl, but idk about her since she talks to guys on twitter all the time. She also sometimes refers to me by a nickname of mine that very few girls call me and that generally only my closer friends use. Also one day she walked into class with a friend of hers that I actually am friendly with (I don't have this friends number btw but she has mine) and they were discussing the girl I like's list of boyfriends she would want, which she could have brought up in that moment to make me jealous, although that's not certain. At one point in this conversation there was definitely some non-verbal communication and I know for a fact that the girl I like's friend looked at me. So they could have been implying I was on the list but that's not certain. Finally the girl I like's best friend (different friend than the one i already mentioned) occasionaly will gently tease her when we talk in class, and I swear one time after we were done talking i heard her friend say "boyfrieeend", so in general I've sensed very light teasing of the girl I like by her friends when I'm around.
I absolutely never see her outside of school, EVER. We travel in different social circles, we've never hung out, and again I think she has my number but I don't have her's. The only time I might see her outside of school is on the last day of school when my whole grade goes to the same beach. Last day of school is June 26th. Thanks your majesty.
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Oh, you thought I was British? I thought YOU were British the whole time!
She's interested in you man. I know that for sure. But she's interested in other guys too. You better be the first one to ask her out or other guys will pick her up.
Signed,
Knight Nigel Wellington XXI