Alright so the first text message I sent was just me answering a question she had asked me but 36 hours later I sent another text asking "How was detective Pikachu?" since she said she was excited to see it that weekend.
She replied: "It was great". I see this as an absolute win, when should I propose?
You're being a little hard on yourself. Chances are you said something that freaked her out. It was probably nothing you can be blamed for. People have peeves, triggers, red flags. But it's now established that she stopped short of ghosting you, and you've made it clear you're still interested in her, so I think your job now is to fight the urge to act, and just let her ruminate.
I think so, yes. If she doesn't respond by next weekend text her something simple and true. "Hey, I miss you. Get a drink?" Needs to be natural and real and from you though.
Perfect! IMO don't bring up any of the earlier awkwardness or try and apologize for anything. Act like it never happened and your only thought is to have a good time with someone you like.
So the second date happened. I didn't want to talk about any of the negative things that happened but she decided to bring them up during our date (in a somewhat joking way).
The date was still good though. Definitely feel closer and more secure about our relationship.. but also now I'm less sure how much forward I want to go forward with this.
Had the 4th date and we made out/ slept in her bed.
We expressed some care for each other too.
She asked me to come over Wednesday night now. Pretty sure the atmosphere is sexual.
I'm a bit worried about a number of things though. I cannot help but think of the relationship as something that might develop into marriage and there are lots of things that bother me
Is it normal for a girl to have a few drinks and then just leave?
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Alright so the first text message I sent was just me answering a question she had asked me but 36 hours later I sent another text asking "How was detective Pikachu?" since she said she was excited to see it that weekend.
She replied: "It was great". I see this as an absolute win, when should I propose?
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You're being a little hard on yourself. Chances are you said something that freaked her out. It was probably nothing you can be blamed for. People have peeves, triggers, red flags. But it's now established that she stopped short of ghosting you, and you've made it clear you're still interested in her, so I think your job now is to fight the urge to act, and just let her ruminate.
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What do I say next? Should I maybe wait for her to text me?
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I think so, yes. If she doesn't respond by next weekend text her something simple and true. "Hey, I miss you. Get a drink?" Needs to be natural and real and from you though.
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I asked if she liked milkshakes and got a second date aayy
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So the second date happened. I didn't want to talk about any of the negative things that happened but she decided to bring them up during our date (in a somewhat joking way).
The date was still good though. Definitely feel closer and more secure about our relationship.. but also now I'm less sure how much forward I want to go forward with this.
Had the 4th date and we made out/ slept in her bed.
We expressed some care for each other too.
She asked me to come over Wednesday night now. Pretty sure the atmosphere is sexual.
I'm a bit worried about a number of things though. I cannot help but think of the relationship as something that might develop into marriage and there are lots of things that bother me