I doubt it was even your fault man. The more you try to figure out what you did wrong the more you'll just have bad luck with dates. Sometimes girls just dont bite. I seriously doubt you could have done anything different to make her want a 2nd date. Keep being yourself whatever you do. Don't try to change your personality at all for the next date.
Alright so the first text message I sent was just me answering a question she had asked me but 36 hours later I sent another text asking "How was detective Pikachu?" since she said she was excited to see it that weekend.
She replied: "It was great". I see this as an absolute win, when should I propose?
You're being a little hard on yourself. Chances are you said something that freaked her out. It was probably nothing you can be blamed for. People have peeves, triggers, red flags. But it's now established that she stopped short of ghosting you, and you've made it clear you're still interested in her, so I think your job now is to fight the urge to act, and just let her ruminate.
I think so, yes. If she doesn't respond by next weekend text her something simple and true. "Hey, I miss you. Get a drink?" Needs to be natural and real and from you though.
Is it normal for a girl to have a few drinks and then just leave?
↑ View this comment's parent
← View full post
I feel like an unlikeable fuck up lol
--
FromTheSouthWeirdGuy
4 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
I doubt it was even your fault man. The more you try to figure out what you did wrong the more you'll just have bad luck with dates. Sometimes girls just dont bite. I seriously doubt you could have done anything different to make her want a 2nd date. Keep being yourself whatever you do. Don't try to change your personality at all for the next date.
--
Anonymous Post Author
4 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
-
Anonymous Post Author
4 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
Got a second date boiis
Alright so the first text message I sent was just me answering a question she had asked me but 36 hours later I sent another text asking "How was detective Pikachu?" since she said she was excited to see it that weekend.
She replied: "It was great". I see this as an absolute win, when should I propose?
--
einexile
4 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
You're being a little hard on yourself. Chances are you said something that freaked her out. It was probably nothing you can be blamed for. People have peeves, triggers, red flags. But it's now established that she stopped short of ghosting you, and you've made it clear you're still interested in her, so I think your job now is to fight the urge to act, and just let her ruminate.
--
Anonymous Post Author
4 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
What do I say next? Should I maybe wait for her to text me?
--
einexile
4 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
I think so, yes. If she doesn't respond by next weekend text her something simple and true. "Hey, I miss you. Get a drink?" Needs to be natural and real and from you though.
--
Anonymous Post Author
4 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
See More Comments =>
I asked if she liked milkshakes and got a second date aayy