Is it normal for a girl to break up with me for being a virgin?

i was seeing this girl and just when it seemed like she was getting interested she said btw your not a virgin are you? and i confessed i am and she broke up with me right there. well wtf? how many girls are like this all of them? how am i supposed to loose my virginity if girls wont have sex with me because im a virgin?

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Comments ( 35 )
  • Imsupernormal

    LoL you're a pathetic virgin loser because you can't get laid bitch!

    (Sarcasm)

    But seriously she is an immature slut and you should totally forget about her. She was probably just interested in a casual relationship just so she could have sex. Girls can be horn dogs to you know.

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    • 1000yrVampireKing

      I agree with this. She is a bitch. You should not feel bad. Anyone who dumps someone just for being a virgin is a whore and she sounds like a tramp. You are better off without her. She is most likely going to die from clamedia so do not fret you dodged a bullet.

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  • CheyChey

    She's a silly silly girl, as a virgin myself if I were to find a guy who's a virgin also I'd be all up on that it's a bonus though it could be a bit weird no experience on both sides whatsoever but it could be really beautiful

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  • NotStrangeBird

    Any kind of real girlfriend would do all she could to change your status.

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  • She is a dumb slut.

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    • sheilarae1987

      Hmmm...I agree lolz.

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  • sheilarae1987

    that's insane....I guess she mighta broke it off to avoid 20 second first-time sex, but virgins are fun, you can show them what you know, you'll always be remembered and guaranteed clean. Whats not to like?

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  • TheOrphan

    She could've been a shallow bitch or whos to say she didnt have a bad experience with a clingy firsttimer. Maybe she's a hoe bag who only wants experienced wood.

    Ppl do a lot of things for a lot of reasons when it comes to sex.

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  • robbieforgotpw

    Maybe (but not likely) she knows virginity is important? And she didnt want to be the one you gave it away to?
    ...Grasping?...

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  • lizieralizard

    consider yourself lucky that you did not lose your virginity to her. Worse yet, u couldve gotten her pregnant and then wouldve had to deal w her forever. u dodged a bullet there.

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  • bananaparty69

    What a pathetic excuse for a girl.

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  • short&sassy

    She's just being a dumb slut, and didn't want to be responsible for taking your virginity. You need to find a girl who you love a lot and can share that with comfortably and not someone who's looking for casual sex.

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  • Sia327

    Well she's obviously really stupid or insecure. Personally I find men who have slept with hundreds of women disgusting, ignore her she's immature.

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  • TheTraveller

    Wow, what a total bitch. Seriously she wasn't worth your time.

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  • dude_Jones

    She's insensitive and hurtful. A real girl would ask about your fantasies, and turn them into reality.

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  • D_Starling

    Well I personally wouldn't want to sleep with someone who is a virgin because It feels like I'm stealing away their innocence. It was fine when I was a virgin- Actually i didn't want to sleep with someone who wasn't a virgin then because it was way to scary, but now i realize most (not all) virgins are really bad and they cum way too fast. But a lot of girls can think differently that's just my opinion.

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  • kit-kat-bar

    Do they think you are waiting for "THE ONE?" That can cause pressure.

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  • Antir0b0t

    WHAAAAAT?! She sounds very shallow. And quite frankly, you wouldn't want to lose your virginity to such an ice-queen. In my opinion, guys who are virgins are fucking adorable. And the idea of taking their innocence... Mmm. Tasty, tasty innocence.

    Find a girl who you fancy, and who isn't a bitch. You'll remember your first time for the rest of your life, so make it with someone you'll want to remember. And don't rush either, being a virgin isn't bad at all. When the time is right you'll know, and find a girl who digs you being a virgin, there's more of us females out there like that. Promise. :)

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  • spidercrowblaze18762

    Good she left you, she never fucking cared bout u!!! Just shove up your middle finger upp her asshole nd forget bout her!

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  • pikaaapower

    Sorry to say this but she was just in it for sex. Don't worry, there are other girls out there who wouldn't mind you being a virgin :))

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  • TruthfulTeenQueen

    Maybe she wanted someone with experience and to satisfy her, Its her decision and it might have been out of order but she must've felt strongly about it to leave you. Dont hate! You dont know their relationship, there migh tbe more to it that hes not saying cus he knows hes in the wrong

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  • purpletrain

    She's an idiot. You deserve better. And if she's mad that you're a virgin she's probably been around.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    sounds like you picked a shallow girl.

    keep looking. not every woman is that shallow

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  • suishokiba

    She's really stupid. I shared my first/only time with someone who was also a virgin. I think your first time should be with someone you feel really connected with. The fact that my boyfriend was a virgin like me, I was able to trust him more. The first time, is a romantic bonding experience. Don't waste that on someone who only wants to have sex. In any case, you being a virgin shouldn't be an issue at all.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    That sounds kind of weird. No.

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  • rhythmness93

    haha dude you're a rarity....my friends and I are kinda disgusting on that level.

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  • kelili

    She immature and surely doesn't have much experience herself. There are many nice girls out there and with a bit of patience you'll fall on one. Maybe for your first experience you should try to find a mature woman.

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  • Sig_45

    lmao ur a virgin!!!! lol jp

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  • It's because virgins aren't good at having sex, she may have been a girl that likes sex.

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    • TheTraveller

      Virgins aren't good at having sex? Umm... DUH?!
      The problem is, that'll never change if people become so idiotic that they won't lay someone because they haven't had the experience in the first place.

      News flash: We're all born virgins and stay that way until someone acts mature enough to give us all the chance to change it.

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      • It's not her problem, she might not want to wait for him to get good, it takes a fair bit of time.

        I never said it wasn't selfish of her though!

        As usual, another user whom has no point to make gets in my face.

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        • TheTraveller

          You're laughable, seriously.

          If you don't like what I have to say, then don't bother replying about it. I made a valid point and I don't care what you think about it, you'll get over it just like everyone else does.

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          • "If you don't like what I have to say, then don't bother replying about it."

            The ironic nature of that statement is the only thing laughable, it'll probably take you another four weeks to figure out how you just made a fool of yourself without realising.

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            • TheTraveller

              The only person making any fool of themselves is you. And unlike you, I don't watch this site constantly for meaningless replies from people who make zero difference whatsoever, so yes, it took me a month to reply to your previous idiotic statements.
              As far as what you consider to be "ironic nature of [my] statement", I never claimed to not like what you had to say, that's just an assumption that you've made in your mind because of your inability to process rational thought.
              Now, since this has turned into you trying to keep an argument alive by insulting me, I will no longer reply to your idiotic messages. If you have something intelligent to say (assuming you're even slightly capable of that), that is on topic, then I might consider actually having a rational discussion with you. Until then, I'm done.
              My advice to you is to grow up.

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