Is it normal for a girl to be this submissive?

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These days it seems like it is hot and cool for a girl to be all bossy and dominant. And some guys that I date or know agree with that theory. But seriously, all I want from a guy is someone to love me, take care of me, and dominate me. I want him to grab me, pin me down, and take me by force. I want him to have his way with me any time he wants, and any way he wants. I want him to lovingly tell me what I can and can't do, and when I disappoint him, I want him to bend me over and spank my bare bottom until I am ever so contrite. I want him to make the decisions, to be the mature, steady strong one, and to protect me. Am I weird? Do most guys want a girl like this?

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  • ciloneto
    11 years ago | pl

    Not sure if it's normal, but not that unusual. And i would say that a LOT o man would want a girl like this. I would!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago | pl

      Wonderful. I hope you find a lucky lady who would enjoy this kind of treatment soon! :)

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  • normalgirlisnormal
    11 years ago | pl

    i totally agree with you!
    There's a lot of guys like "yeah i like when my girl tells me what to do.."
    but belive me!
    im a teacher and after all day giving orders
    all i want is a man telling me what he wants me to do ;)

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago | pl

      You sound like an awesome lady! It seems there aren't many like us left in the world, and when most people learn of my submissiveness, they think I'm just pathetic. :)

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  • QuestionMark?
    11 years ago | pl

    Yes it is perfectly normal! :D
    & yes most guys would love girls like this, most definitely!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago | pl

      Awesome. I am excited to find a guy that will dominate me in such a manner then. :)

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  • ygrowup
    11 years ago | pl

    Yes yes and yes!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago | pl

      Thank you! May I know your gender? :)

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      • ygrowup
        11 years ago | pl

        Male, but I thought you could tell that! LOL

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          11 years ago | pl

          I just wanted to make sure. lol But it's good to know. :)

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  • Gelmurag
    11 years ago | pl

    This is a touchy subject because it would be very hard for you to find a guy that can separate bedroom play from real life. See, sex feels good, so he would learn to associate anything good with being somewhat violent toward you. His sports team wins a game, and he smacks you around a bit. Crude example but you get the point.

    Is it normal for you to feel that way? Yes, it is similar to girls with rape fantasy. Should you do it everytime...well with the right guy you can, but again, you run the risk of turning it into something more ominous.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago | pl

      Thanks for the kind, thoughtful reply. You're right, it is hard to separate sex and reality...and I think I made it clear that I do not mind him telling me what to do. But yes, if he should slap me in the face, or become abusive, that would be sad. A spanking would be fun, a beating would be terrifying. So yeah, it's all about finding the right guy. Okay, got it. :)

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      • ciloneto
        11 years ago | pl

        not abusive! but a not so hard slap, o something more like a strong arm grab or hair grab would be ok, It also dependes if this kind of behavior would be just inside the house or also outside n' in front of friends.

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