I enjoy the back and forth, its especially encouraging to know that there are perhaps some females left that do not subscribe to the idea that a man isnt complete until he is dominated by a woman. Its reached an almost epidemic level in the US regarding the fear of being racist or labeled as such. In our scramble to make up for past issues such as slavery society feels anyone fitting a minority status automatically must be given a job, food, shelter, and any other requirements fitting the "pursuit of happiness" without doing anything in regards to earning those rewards. The unjustified fear is almost palpable within the caucasian community, I speak from my own experience being a white male. I agree in terms of it being unfair to non-whites, yet they have no reason to complain, after all they are getting preferential treatment. All they have to do is shame society with the guilt that their great great great great grandmother was a slave (someone they never knew mind you) and society immediately coddles them.
The idea of totally equality is really a fabrication, both in marriage and in society. In a perfect world it would be the norm, our world is far from that so its an unrealistic objective. I find it amazing to watch television sitcoms (though I do less and less these days) and many of the story lines are written around how the man invariably does something wrong, incurs the wrath of the wife and then has some grand undertaking to do to make up for it. You know what I am referring to the catch all "Boy, you are in trouble now". Many times only for the ridiculous infraction of not doing what she told him to do. Its encourgaged even in commercials, the man finds himself wanting to pursue something the wife doesnt approve of and he finds himself under the scrutiny of his wife. Why? For not doing what she wanted him to do it? Is she required to do everything he wants her to do? No, so why is it any different for the man? Yet if the roles were reversed many in society would sit back and say what a chauvinist pig the man is for bossing his wife around like that. Yet if the wife does it she isnt labelled as a bitch, its called "cute" and "aww, they are in love". If thats love my friend then I can do without, thank you very much. I have a female boss at work telling me what to do, I dont need one at home doing the same thing.
You are in a quickly fading minority regrettably, but that just makes you all the more desirable. Make sure to choose wisely, though I am sure you will.
I enjoy this conversation as well, and find you to be a very wise and thoughtful man. The woman who you get with will be very lucky.
Finally, someone else that shares my disgust for the "female domination" flaunted by the media. It certainly is sad that if I guy scold his wife, tells her what she can and cannot do, "That is outrageously abusive and controlling!" But if a woman does the same thing we just hear the typical, "haha, well, you know, that's women." If is so stupid and reversed. Your examples are perfect. So typical, and yet so true.
I have a cousins and uncles who fear and revere their wives more than anything else. "I had a miserable day yesterday, my wife was mad about..." I hear it from them so often. And so, I guess I can't even blame the nasty bitching women anymore. It merely encourages them that so many men are pussies and sit back and take such treatment.
I am trying to choose wisely when it comes to a mate. Mostly I just want someone who will know how to run the household kindly, lovingly, and firmly, as a man, not a woman or chid. I also hope you find a woman who is good to you and makes you very happy. :)
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I enjoy the back and forth, its especially encouraging to know that there are perhaps some females left that do not subscribe to the idea that a man isnt complete until he is dominated by a woman. Its reached an almost epidemic level in the US regarding the fear of being racist or labeled as such. In our scramble to make up for past issues such as slavery society feels anyone fitting a minority status automatically must be given a job, food, shelter, and any other requirements fitting the "pursuit of happiness" without doing anything in regards to earning those rewards. The unjustified fear is almost palpable within the caucasian community, I speak from my own experience being a white male. I agree in terms of it being unfair to non-whites, yet they have no reason to complain, after all they are getting preferential treatment. All they have to do is shame society with the guilt that their great great great great grandmother was a slave (someone they never knew mind you) and society immediately coddles them.
The idea of totally equality is really a fabrication, both in marriage and in society. In a perfect world it would be the norm, our world is far from that so its an unrealistic objective. I find it amazing to watch television sitcoms (though I do less and less these days) and many of the story lines are written around how the man invariably does something wrong, incurs the wrath of the wife and then has some grand undertaking to do to make up for it. You know what I am referring to the catch all "Boy, you are in trouble now". Many times only for the ridiculous infraction of not doing what she told him to do. Its encourgaged even in commercials, the man finds himself wanting to pursue something the wife doesnt approve of and he finds himself under the scrutiny of his wife. Why? For not doing what she wanted him to do it? Is she required to do everything he wants her to do? No, so why is it any different for the man? Yet if the roles were reversed many in society would sit back and say what a chauvinist pig the man is for bossing his wife around like that. Yet if the wife does it she isnt labelled as a bitch, its called "cute" and "aww, they are in love". If thats love my friend then I can do without, thank you very much. I have a female boss at work telling me what to do, I dont need one at home doing the same thing.
You are in a quickly fading minority regrettably, but that just makes you all the more desirable. Make sure to choose wisely, though I am sure you will.
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I enjoy this conversation as well, and find you to be a very wise and thoughtful man. The woman who you get with will be very lucky.
Finally, someone else that shares my disgust for the "female domination" flaunted by the media. It certainly is sad that if I guy scold his wife, tells her what she can and cannot do, "That is outrageously abusive and controlling!" But if a woman does the same thing we just hear the typical, "haha, well, you know, that's women." If is so stupid and reversed. Your examples are perfect. So typical, and yet so true.
I have a cousins and uncles who fear and revere their wives more than anything else. "I had a miserable day yesterday, my wife was mad about..." I hear it from them so often. And so, I guess I can't even blame the nasty bitching women anymore. It merely encourages them that so many men are pussies and sit back and take such treatment.
I am trying to choose wisely when it comes to a mate. Mostly I just want someone who will know how to run the household kindly, lovingly, and firmly, as a man, not a woman or chid. I also hope you find a woman who is good to you and makes you very happy. :)