Again I have to say it, great topic and post for discussion. Hits home even more for me as I am a 31 yr old male, single, that somewhat recently was in a relationship (over a year ago) with a female who would very much fit the mold of a dominant personality, though not a feminist.
The problem with the world today, or at least America as I see it, are these shifting paradigms and unrealistic push for equality. If you have 10 openings for a job with 100 potential applicants, have each applicant go through the same criteria for the job and have the top 10 applicants get the job, that used to the motto of our country, and we prospered because of it. Now when you have 10 job openings we have to fill 2 of them with blacks, 2 of them with hispanics, give one to an Asian (no offense) give one to an Indian (India), a woman has to be in there somewhere, we also need an Arabian person, that leaves mayby 2 job openings left that will actually be filled with the people who "earned" it, i.e. passed the test, qualifying education, etc....
This same idea seems to have infected the dating/social world as well, where no matter what the actual qualities of a person are we absolutely have to accept them as equal and give them equal treatment.
Is it normal for a girl to be an antifeminist?
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Again I have to say it, great topic and post for discussion. Hits home even more for me as I am a 31 yr old male, single, that somewhat recently was in a relationship (over a year ago) with a female who would very much fit the mold of a dominant personality, though not a feminist.
The problem with the world today, or at least America as I see it, are these shifting paradigms and unrealistic push for equality. If you have 10 openings for a job with 100 potential applicants, have each applicant go through the same criteria for the job and have the top 10 applicants get the job, that used to the motto of our country, and we prospered because of it. Now when you have 10 job openings we have to fill 2 of them with blacks, 2 of them with hispanics, give one to an Asian (no offense) give one to an Indian (India), a woman has to be in there somewhere, we also need an Arabian person, that leaves mayby 2 job openings left that will actually be filled with the people who "earned" it, i.e. passed the test, qualifying education, etc....
This same idea seems to have infected the dating/social world as well, where no matter what the actual qualities of a person are we absolutely have to accept them as equal and give them equal treatment.
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