Get into a relationship where both of you are "defiant" and tell me how that works out for you. Almost no couple is ever "equal" in decision making etc. there is almost always someone who is more dominant and that is the natural state of things and how it works best. Women tend to be much more inclined toward the submissive/less dominant role. There is a reason women are attracted to dominant, alpha males much more than pushover betas. I think what the OP was indicating is that she is that her ideal bf/husband would be an alpha male who can take care of her/offer security, financially, emotionally, romantically/sexually and make her feel like a lady (for lack of a better term). Someone that makes her feel free to be her true feminine self without her needing to worry about trying to compete with him in areas she's not even interested in.
As a married man I can tell you defiance is not a value in a relationship. That's silly. On the one hand, it is natural to want to be the dominant one (and you show some signs of that), but then you say
Is it normal for a girl to be an antifeminist?
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True_Misanthrope,
Get into a relationship where both of you are "defiant" and tell me how that works out for you. Almost no couple is ever "equal" in decision making etc. there is almost always someone who is more dominant and that is the natural state of things and how it works best. Women tend to be much more inclined toward the submissive/less dominant role. There is a reason women are attracted to dominant, alpha males much more than pushover betas. I think what the OP was indicating is that she is that her ideal bf/husband would be an alpha male who can take care of her/offer security, financially, emotionally, romantically/sexually and make her feel like a lady (for lack of a better term). Someone that makes her feel free to be her true feminine self without her needing to worry about trying to compete with him in areas she's not even interested in.
As a married man I can tell you defiance is not a value in a relationship. That's silly. On the one hand, it is natural to want to be the dominant one (and you show some signs of that), but then you say