Hmm I don't know why but it was showing some of your responses as your user name and others as "anonymous story author" but now they are all showing up under the later. Weird. Maybe it's because I'm on the iPhone app that is no longer being kept up by them but still gives you access to IIN (although I'm sure soon enough it won't work anymore).
I didn't mean to suggest you should hurry and jump into a relationship, especially given how unworthy and incompatible most men (at least Western men) would be for you. Sadly, feminist and other kinds of propaganda have messed men up a lot too. There aren't hardly enough truly virile men around anymore, instead we have a bunch of guys who live in perpetual adolescence; man-boys. Most of whom are either effeminate or hedonistic pigs who make a mockery of masculinity (i.e. "gangstas").
Anyway, I definitely understand and support you having patience and waiting to find the right guy. That's what my wife did, although we met each other just in time because she was starting to wonder if there was something wrong with her, as in her standards being too high, since she had no experience with men because of them.
I am a little disappointed to find out you're half Chinese just because it is so rare to find a gender-healthy girl/woman in the West these days. Given what you said about your cultural identity and such though, I think you are still very unique. And I understand you not being attracted to the men in China, on multiple levels. Given your beliefs I think you would be better off with an intelligent, masculine westerner, but that's just my opinion.
Okay gotcha. Here I was thinking you were either some kind of hacker, or one of the site moderators. I'm relieved on both counts. :)
I agree totally that men have been messed up a lot too, and most men either think I'm weird for having my point of view, or think I'm joking, or think it's a chance to walk all over me because it's a sign I don't value myself. I'd like to think that all three of those reactions are incorrect though. :) And yes, you hit the nail dead-on. When it comes to effeminate men, and man-boys, I have seen and met far too many. It gets to where we women crave a little manliness, just as I'm sure you decent men crave some femininity.
Your wife sounds like such a lovely person, I'm sure she and I could be good friends. I too have always had high standards, but have trouble sticking too them, because I do have plenty of guys interested in me, and it is hard not to be swayed when you are young. Furthermore, sometimes I convince myself that my standards really are too high, and I will never find a guy that actually meets them all. But your wife's story is encouraging. So...do you have a brother? jk ;)
Please don't be disappointed about my ethnicity. This is the reason I hid it, because it literally and truly has nothing to do with my stance here. All my friends are American, I have always received American education, and really do not relate at all to the Chinese and my Dad's family. That being said, China is now as feministic as America, if not more so, when it comes to family life, so even if I did think like a Chinese, it would not explain my beliefs. But anyway, I agree heartily with you that I need to find myself an intelligent and masculine westerner, and not settle before then! Wishing you all the best, Sir!
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Hmm I don't know why but it was showing some of your responses as your user name and others as "anonymous story author" but now they are all showing up under the later. Weird. Maybe it's because I'm on the iPhone app that is no longer being kept up by them but still gives you access to IIN (although I'm sure soon enough it won't work anymore).
I didn't mean to suggest you should hurry and jump into a relationship, especially given how unworthy and incompatible most men (at least Western men) would be for you. Sadly, feminist and other kinds of propaganda have messed men up a lot too. There aren't hardly enough truly virile men around anymore, instead we have a bunch of guys who live in perpetual adolescence; man-boys. Most of whom are either effeminate or hedonistic pigs who make a mockery of masculinity (i.e. "gangstas").
Anyway, I definitely understand and support you having patience and waiting to find the right guy. That's what my wife did, although we met each other just in time because she was starting to wonder if there was something wrong with her, as in her standards being too high, since she had no experience with men because of them.
I am a little disappointed to find out you're half Chinese just because it is so rare to find a gender-healthy girl/woman in the West these days. Given what you said about your cultural identity and such though, I think you are still very unique. And I understand you not being attracted to the men in China, on multiple levels. Given your beliefs I think you would be better off with an intelligent, masculine westerner, but that's just my opinion.
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Okay gotcha. Here I was thinking you were either some kind of hacker, or one of the site moderators. I'm relieved on both counts. :)
I agree totally that men have been messed up a lot too, and most men either think I'm weird for having my point of view, or think I'm joking, or think it's a chance to walk all over me because it's a sign I don't value myself. I'd like to think that all three of those reactions are incorrect though. :) And yes, you hit the nail dead-on. When it comes to effeminate men, and man-boys, I have seen and met far too many. It gets to where we women crave a little manliness, just as I'm sure you decent men crave some femininity.
Your wife sounds like such a lovely person, I'm sure she and I could be good friends. I too have always had high standards, but have trouble sticking too them, because I do have plenty of guys interested in me, and it is hard not to be swayed when you are young. Furthermore, sometimes I convince myself that my standards really are too high, and I will never find a guy that actually meets them all. But your wife's story is encouraging. So...do you have a brother? jk ;)
Please don't be disappointed about my ethnicity. This is the reason I hid it, because it literally and truly has nothing to do with my stance here. All my friends are American, I have always received American education, and really do not relate at all to the Chinese and my Dad's family. That being said, China is now as feministic as America, if not more so, when it comes to family life, so even if I did think like a Chinese, it would not explain my beliefs. But anyway, I agree heartily with you that I need to find myself an intelligent and masculine westerner, and not settle before then! Wishing you all the best, Sir!