Is it normal for a gay guy to still be a virgin at 24?

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I'm a twenty-four year old gay Indian guy living in the UK. Lately I've been pretty depressed about the fact that I'm still a virgin. No matter how many other gay guys I meet they just don't do it for me. None of them are good looking enough for me. I consider myself to be quite attractive. My only flaw is a bald spot on the back of my head.

I also don't like the idea of dating since I know that I'll be judged within the first minute of a date, and the guy won't be likely to change his opinion of me anymore after that.

Anyways, if a guy really likes me shouldn't he contact me? I don't see why I should contact other guys or people in general. They are the ones missing out after all. I've made the experience that some people can't be bothered to reply to my texts. That has to be for personal reasons. People just being busy can't be the reason. People who think that are kidding themselves. Well, when people text me I don't always get back to them anyway since they should be happy enough when I talk to them just some of the time.

Still, the fact that I'm still a virgin despite everything I've tried continues to bother me. Is it normal for me to still be a virgin?

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Based on 38 votes (21 yes)

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RoseIsabella

9 years ago

Maybe it's your personality?

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  9 years ago
  
  Why would it be my personality? I'm afraid I don't understand what you mean. I have a great personality. People are lucky to know me.
  
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  - Anonymous200
    
    9 years ago
    
    You come off as a bit arrogant. If you go around thinking that you're better than everyone else, it'll be harder to find a boyfriend.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      9 years ago
      
      Arrogant? I'm certainly confident but that's because I know I'm quite a catch with my great looks and personality.
      
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modernism

9 years ago

From your comments, it seems like you're very confident, but it comes off as arrogant and "superior". Put little ice on your ego - it's a bit swollen. Maybe then more guys of your interest will take notice.

And gay or not, being a virgin at 24 is normal.

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vaginahouse

9 years ago

ill tare your ass up

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  9 years ago
  
  a higher case than you
  
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  - vaginahouse
    
    9 years ago
    
    thats cool you can blow me too if you want
    
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      9 years ago
      
      Only if you blow me first
      
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  9 years ago
  
  I'd rather tear yours up. I'm probably of a higher caste anyway.
  
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sg2790

9 years ago

there is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 24 regardless of sexuality.

However, you do sound incredibly narcissistic... try working on your personality rather than worrying about the bald spot on your head.

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mlbryan44

9 years ago

I will fuck you if you suck my cock first!

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  9 years ago
  
  Who says I want to be bottom?
  
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    9 years ago
    
    im pretty sure thats a rule you have to be bottom the first time
    
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      9 years ago
      
      If that's a rule I've never heard of it.
      
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Cuntsiclestick

9 years ago

Perhaps you should try a dating website?

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  9 years ago
  
  I have tried dating websites before but after one date I never heard back from anyone. Sometimes they even stood me up at the date.
  
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  - Cuntsiclestick
    
    9 years ago
    
    Yeah, getting stood up will happen sometimes. It's happened to me before. lol. Dating people from dating websites requires a lot of time and patience. Perhaps you should give it another chance?
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      9 years ago
      
      I guess I will give it another chance. There aren't too many other options for me. Hopefully soon I'll finally meet someone who realises how GREAT I am.
      
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davesumba

9 years ago

How do you know you're gay if you've never been attracted to a man?

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  9 years ago
  
  I have certainly been attracted to men before. Unfortunately, it has just never gone anywhere. I don't understand why other gay men apparently are not attracted to my amazing looks and personality.
  
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shuggy-chan

9 years ago

Grinder brahh

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  9 years ago
  
  I've tried Grindr but none of the men on there so far are even my type. There's just too many uggos on there.
  
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