My best friend's on-off girlfriend once had a very frank and sexual conversation with me on the phone at his house (while he was present but apparently not in the room). I knew she liked me as a person (I'm always the first in the group to meet people's new girlfriends because they always like me, and then when they meet the whole group, I'm there as a kind of backup).
But I didn't know she had those kinds of thoughts about me. The worst thing is that the things she was describing were a massive turn-on to me and I was temporarily flustered. The way I dealt with it was to say that I was flattered but that he's my best friend and I couldn't do that to him. I never told him what happened. In retrospect, I still think I did exactly the right thing.
Now he's married to someone else, I do still occasionally wonder about her too.
IIN for a friends girlfriend to flirt with you and you like it ?
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My best friend's on-off girlfriend once had a very frank and sexual conversation with me on the phone at his house (while he was present but apparently not in the room). I knew she liked me as a person (I'm always the first in the group to meet people's new girlfriends because they always like me, and then when they meet the whole group, I'm there as a kind of backup).
But I didn't know she had those kinds of thoughts about me. The worst thing is that the things she was describing were a massive turn-on to me and I was temporarily flustered. The way I dealt with it was to say that I was flattered but that he's my best friend and I couldn't do that to him. I never told him what happened. In retrospect, I still think I did exactly the right thing.
Now he's married to someone else, I do still occasionally wonder about her too.