Oh my gosh, that is one thing that really annoys me about her mom... the mom goes on to get angry at her daughter and says "they are like this because of YOUR poor example," even though it was really the mom they got it from (like angry outbursts, and lack of any control at some points). Thanks so much for your time...
yeah sure okay I can see your point but if the girl is failing to show leadership you can understand how that can be frustrating for the mother. It is part of upbringing to get your children to assume responsibility and maturity which comes from leadership.
I don't think she is (granted, i am not always around to witness it). She seems to be very down to earth, but she is pretty introverted, so she doesn't exactly raise them or anything. Both parents are gone to work for a lot of the day, so she ends up being the 'parent' most of the time, but she has been doing this since she was maybe 12 or 13 or so, and really shouldn't have been responsible for so much (three younger siblings that she had to watch, while constantly cleaning their messes, and getting homework done). I know u are probably more qualified than i am to know if she is really an annoyance to her mom, but i know i would be doing much worse than she was if i was in her place...
Is it normal for a friend's parent to yell so much?
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Oh my gosh, that is one thing that really annoys me about her mom... the mom goes on to get angry at her daughter and says "they are like this because of YOUR poor example," even though it was really the mom they got it from (like angry outbursts, and lack of any control at some points). Thanks so much for your time...
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yeah sure okay I can see your point but if the girl is failing to show leadership you can understand how that can be frustrating for the mother. It is part of upbringing to get your children to assume responsibility and maturity which comes from leadership.
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I don't think she is (granted, i am not always around to witness it). She seems to be very down to earth, but she is pretty introverted, so she doesn't exactly raise them or anything. Both parents are gone to work for a lot of the day, so she ends up being the 'parent' most of the time, but she has been doing this since she was maybe 12 or 13 or so, and really shouldn't have been responsible for so much (three younger siblings that she had to watch, while constantly cleaning their messes, and getting homework done). I know u are probably more qualified than i am to know if she is really an annoyance to her mom, but i know i would be doing much worse than she was if i was in her place...