Absolutely not normal Angel and I AM SOOO sorry that you were put through hell! I have seen a few cases like this where a father/step father or grand father treats the young girls in his house mean! It is highly probable that his father was nicer to the girls then the boys by a lot! His deep seated resentment of his father treating him or sometimes all of the males around him bad while being kind to the girls gets transferred to all the young females he is in charge of as an adult. He blames his sister(s) for his fathers mistreatment of him! It is likely that the brutality you received at his hands parallels the abuses he too suffered from his SOB. It is good that you are getting these issues up to the surface so that you can fully comprehend what has happened & how it effected you. Eventually you will forgive yourself when you realize you did nothing wrong. You will forgive your mother for allowing it. You may even one day forgive the monster if you discover that he was also a victim. You are very brave and extremely strong and Beautiful Angel. Keep talking about it to everyone everywhere until it haunts you NO MORE. You may wish to get some counseling if you need more then what we're doing here now. It happened! Its over accept for the long healing process and YOU not only survived but became wiser, stronger, and even more Beautiful in spite of it! You are validated in ALL of your feelings on this insane horrible matter. You ARE badass BEAUTIFUL Angel SEE THAT! Your coming forward here will also help others! You are one of my heros and I have very few. If there is ANYTHING I can do to help you please don't hesitate to ask. Love to you my sister much Love and healing.
Is it normal for a father to treat his own daughter this way?
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Absolutely not normal Angel and I AM SOOO sorry that you were put through hell! I have seen a few cases like this where a father/step father or grand father treats the young girls in his house mean! It is highly probable that his father was nicer to the girls then the boys by a lot! His deep seated resentment of his father treating him or sometimes all of the males around him bad while being kind to the girls gets transferred to all the young females he is in charge of as an adult. He blames his sister(s) for his fathers mistreatment of him! It is likely that the brutality you received at his hands parallels the abuses he too suffered from his SOB. It is good that you are getting these issues up to the surface so that you can fully comprehend what has happened & how it effected you. Eventually you will forgive yourself when you realize you did nothing wrong. You will forgive your mother for allowing it. You may even one day forgive the monster if you discover that he was also a victim. You are very brave and extremely strong and Beautiful Angel. Keep talking about it to everyone everywhere until it haunts you NO MORE. You may wish to get some counseling if you need more then what we're doing here now. It happened! Its over accept for the long healing process and YOU not only survived but became wiser, stronger, and even more Beautiful in spite of it! You are validated in ALL of your feelings on this insane horrible matter. You ARE badass BEAUTIFUL Angel SEE THAT! Your coming forward here will also help others! You are one of my heros and I have very few. If there is ANYTHING I can do to help you please don't hesitate to ask. Love to you my sister much Love and healing.