Good on you, girl, for escaping from that creepshow's car! I think you should not contact him ever again, and that you should never ever return any correspondence to him when he attempts to contact you!
One thing that really caught my eye was that you said he had been pursuing you for a long time, and he was an awkward prince charming. I'm a firm believer that no means no, so I am not a fan of overly persistent suitors. Tenacity can be cute and endearing when it's coming from a small terrier, but I find it very distasteful and disrespectful when someone vying for my affections cannot take no for an answer. When I say no I mean no, and no explanation should ever be required or desired. If someone continues to ask me out or hold a torch for me after I've said no more than two or three times then I have no other logical course of action than to recognize that this is a person who does not respect me and is delusional enough to think that he knows what's good for me more than I do myself. I personally tend to think that people who can't take no for an answer don't respect or care for the unfortunate objects of they're twisted affections.
I certainly hope that this slimy bastard will leave you alone, and this will be the end of this mess. Just in case this whole matter escalates to stalking and further harassment, I want to encourage you to keep and not delete any texts, emails and or voicemails that he sends your way in case you need those things for evidence in the future. It's possible that he might stalk and harass you in the future, and if that should happen you will most likely need to take out a restraining order. Like I said earlier, I hope he just leaves you alone.
Once again I say good job at following your instincts. Hang I there, girl! All the best, and God bless!
iin for a date to go from fun to creepy in like 2 seconds?
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Good on you, girl, for escaping from that creepshow's car! I think you should not contact him ever again, and that you should never ever return any correspondence to him when he attempts to contact you!
One thing that really caught my eye was that you said he had been pursuing you for a long time, and he was an awkward prince charming. I'm a firm believer that no means no, so I am not a fan of overly persistent suitors. Tenacity can be cute and endearing when it's coming from a small terrier, but I find it very distasteful and disrespectful when someone vying for my affections cannot take no for an answer. When I say no I mean no, and no explanation should ever be required or desired. If someone continues to ask me out or hold a torch for me after I've said no more than two or three times then I have no other logical course of action than to recognize that this is a person who does not respect me and is delusional enough to think that he knows what's good for me more than I do myself. I personally tend to think that people who can't take no for an answer don't respect or care for the unfortunate objects of they're twisted affections.
I certainly hope that this slimy bastard will leave you alone, and this will be the end of this mess. Just in case this whole matter escalates to stalking and further harassment, I want to encourage you to keep and not delete any texts, emails and or voicemails that he sends your way in case you need those things for evidence in the future. It's possible that he might stalk and harass you in the future, and if that should happen you will most likely need to take out a restraining order. Like I said earlier, I hope he just leaves you alone.
Once again I say good job at following your instincts. Hang I there, girl! All the best, and God bless!
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I wish I could thumb this up a buncho times. The second paragraph is 100% what was on mah mind