Is it normal for a couple to never argue?
I knew this married couple that never argued and then I found out the reason was that the man was verbally and emotionally abusive and the woman was scared of him.
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I knew this married couple that never argued and then I found out the reason was that the man was verbally and emotionally abusive and the woman was scared of him.
I’ve only met a few couples who said they didn’t argue ever.
But they were all had very unlikeable personalities for some reason. All of them struck me as couples who were quietly very concerned with what people think of them. Boring, fake, sadly constructed personalities.
I've always been inclined to think that there's no such thing as a very long term relationship in which a couple has never had a disagreement of sorts. They may not air their dirty laundry in public for everyone to see, but I believe there are usually at least some sort of disagreements, even if minor and not full-blown heated arguments. I think just about any two people who spend most of their time together are prone to this at some point or another.
I can see it in this case when one person is afraid of the other, but can't see it happening because the two never disagree on anything (unless one person is an enormous pushover who never learns to stand up for themselves, maybe).