yeah i had that problem with a co-worker too. i think she didnt like me because i was her supervisor and she is 10 years older than me so she thought that she had the right to disrespect me because of that.
she used to complain all the time to the boss and bitch about me to all the people here and they all used to tell me about it. i was always professional with her and in the end i got so tired of it, i picked on everything she did wrong and i sat right next to her and made her fix her mistakes as soon as i found them. she eventually quit which actually made everyone here happy that she was leaving. some people are just mean spirited and jealous and they think its okay to treat you like crap because of it.
this may sound petty but when i was really nice to her, it made her more angry so i tried to make her look like the nastiest person ever by being nice to her face in front of everyone and then she would make up some bs story that i was mean to her and everyone knew she was lying. i never actually bitched about her to anyone at work which made her look even worse.
ask her politely to stop bad-mouthing you because it makes you feel uncomfortable. then when she does it again, make a formal complaint in writing to your boss and if that doesnt change anything, go to your bosses boss etc. if that doesnt change anything then you should find another job where they actually care about their workers. its not worth working for a place like that because you will constantly be stressed and make more mistakes and you might even get the sack.
Is it normal for a co-worker to constantly bad mouth you?
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yeah i had that problem with a co-worker too. i think she didnt like me because i was her supervisor and she is 10 years older than me so she thought that she had the right to disrespect me because of that.
she used to complain all the time to the boss and bitch about me to all the people here and they all used to tell me about it. i was always professional with her and in the end i got so tired of it, i picked on everything she did wrong and i sat right next to her and made her fix her mistakes as soon as i found them. she eventually quit which actually made everyone here happy that she was leaving. some people are just mean spirited and jealous and they think its okay to treat you like crap because of it.
this may sound petty but when i was really nice to her, it made her more angry so i tried to make her look like the nastiest person ever by being nice to her face in front of everyone and then she would make up some bs story that i was mean to her and everyone knew she was lying. i never actually bitched about her to anyone at work which made her look even worse.
ask her politely to stop bad-mouthing you because it makes you feel uncomfortable. then when she does it again, make a formal complaint in writing to your boss and if that doesnt change anything, go to your bosses boss etc. if that doesnt change anything then you should find another job where they actually care about their workers. its not worth working for a place like that because you will constantly be stressed and make more mistakes and you might even get the sack.