Oh her is one for you all....
I changed jobs and a girl who tried to act like a friend but gave me hebie jebies (did not trust) has become obsessed with me. To the point that she hooked up with a lady where the new job is who is 50 yrs old and the two peas in a pod began to play games together - that began over a year ago and is still going on. Only now they have a bully on their team. The girl wrote letters bad mouthing me - problem is that what she stated was true about her, not me. She was having affairs with two guys; one at work and one by the beach some where plus she was living with a guy whom she finally married after 12 years of living with him. She has violated HIPPA several times over. Is jelous of everyone she works around and tries to get them fired because she thinks she should have his/her job and make the money that he/she makes. Of course everyone likes to believe the worst so they all think I am this horrible person.
To boot - two of the women who are currenly work with me are in their 50's and are Supervisors in the department. I am not a super but report directly to the Manager. He is fully aware of their behaviors but is not strong enough to stand up to the bully and the maligner. They operate him like a puppet - tho he will not rid me but he does not do right by me either. Anytime he gives me a duty, the maligner pitches a fit until he gives it to her and if he does not, the bully bullies him until he does.
These two pull something at least twice a month and have gotten away with it for over a year! I am a wreck tho I refuse to show it to them. I feel like I work in Hxll. Anytime the maligner goes by the office door, she must stop and stare. When in a meeting, she spends the meeting staring at me. The Maligner is obsessed with me to the point of discomfort and at times it scares me as there is wonderment as to how far these nuts will go.
Here is the ironic part....this position is in a large well-known hospital. One would tend to think the mental illnesses would be under control. NOT!
Is it normal for a co-worker to constantly bad mouth you?
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Oh her is one for you all....
I changed jobs and a girl who tried to act like a friend but gave me hebie jebies (did not trust) has become obsessed with me. To the point that she hooked up with a lady where the new job is who is 50 yrs old and the two peas in a pod began to play games together - that began over a year ago and is still going on. Only now they have a bully on their team. The girl wrote letters bad mouthing me - problem is that what she stated was true about her, not me. She was having affairs with two guys; one at work and one by the beach some where plus she was living with a guy whom she finally married after 12 years of living with him. She has violated HIPPA several times over. Is jelous of everyone she works around and tries to get them fired because she thinks she should have his/her job and make the money that he/she makes. Of course everyone likes to believe the worst so they all think I am this horrible person.
To boot - two of the women who are currenly work with me are in their 50's and are Supervisors in the department. I am not a super but report directly to the Manager. He is fully aware of their behaviors but is not strong enough to stand up to the bully and the maligner. They operate him like a puppet - tho he will not rid me but he does not do right by me either. Anytime he gives me a duty, the maligner pitches a fit until he gives it to her and if he does not, the bully bullies him until he does.
These two pull something at least twice a month and have gotten away with it for over a year! I am a wreck tho I refuse to show it to them. I feel like I work in Hxll. Anytime the maligner goes by the office door, she must stop and stare. When in a meeting, she spends the meeting staring at me. The Maligner is obsessed with me to the point of discomfort and at times it scares me as there is wonderment as to how far these nuts will go.
Here is the ironic part....this position is in a large well-known hospital. One would tend to think the mental illnesses would be under control. NOT!