Is it normal for a boyfriend to be kinda distant/emotionless?
I'm very insecure bc my boyfriend was handsome, popular, & I didn't feel worthy when I met him.
When we were together, he would just sit on his computer & scroll on reddit/make computer beats w his back turned.
Outside of that, he didn't really show much affection or emotions. He was already comfortable & happy tho.
I was clearly nervous around him, but he didn't do anything to help me or make me feel special.
Like we would be standing in line at a store, I was clearly uncomfortable, but he would just stand there & not say anything or touch me while we waited.
Same thing at a restaurant once, he showed up, we ate & he didn't speak, then he kissed me goodbye & left.
When I told him I felt alone he said "idk why you feel that way!"
I'm v sensitive and it's hard for me to connect w/people or let them in.
Is this normal/what did I do wrong