Is it normal for a boyfriend n me to fight alot

It's normal to argue a lot, there are going to be rough patches in any relationship but both of you need to talk it out and compromise on a solution. It may take a little bit of work and time but eventually you both will stop fighting and learn to either suck it up, talk it out and get over it.

No its not normal, you're supposed to love him

Dump

cut the bullshit