Is it normal for a boyfreind to cry about break up

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A few years a go when I was at university I had met a guy who was very funny charming and a great guy to talk to after a few weeks he asked me out to a resteraunt and we became boyfreind and girlfriend but as soon as the relationship started he ignored me over the next month I said multiple times do you want to meet up and he said no a lot of the time and when I saw him he barely showed me any emotion and lost his humour after about a week I got anouther guy who I liked and dumped the old boyfreind and he full on gave me hesterics, he started crying and begged for me to forgive him and take him back and apologised for monthes about it and even following me HOME! and refusing to leave until I took him back (which I never did) I told him to man up about it but he dident. Anyway is this normal and why did he start acting weird? This happend years ago but I always wonderd what was up with that?

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago | pl

    Are you sure you went to "univercity"? For even a few "mounthes"?

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  • seakelp
    9 years ago | pl

    Ok, I don't know what kind of keyboard you're using but the period key is usually slightly up and to the right of the spacebar. You seem to know where the comma key is, the period key is directly right of that.

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  • LDlauren
    9 years ago | pl

    I went to University and got a degree in Maths just because I failed GCSE English dose not mean that I am dum, mearly retarded at English. And for someone who was not born in England my English is better than others.

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    • Cuntsiclestick
      9 years ago | pl

      This is in no way rude, but if you make basic spelling and punctual mistakes on the internet, people are going to point it out. Saying that English isn't your first language probably won't make them stop.

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    • peaceandlovebro
      9 years ago | pl

      So then you're not a native English speaker? That would make sense then considering you wrote "dose" instead of "does" and "dum" instead of "dumb".

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  • Mersaphe
    9 years ago | pl

    He just wants to have sex with you one last time.

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  • dragonfruit33
    9 years ago | pl

    So guys are not allowed to have emotions? You are afraid of your own and live in denial thereof...so much for being some genius.

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  • dom180
    9 years ago | pl

    It's normal for him to cry, but I don't think it's normal for him to harass you for months about it and refuse to let go. As for why he took the break-up so hard when he never showed any signs of giving a shit before then: it's impossible to know for sure.

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  • crave_blood_always
    9 years ago | pl

    I did that but then she called me three minutes later and we made up.

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    • dragonfruit33
      9 years ago | pl

      This girl wants to be with a robot...lmao...imagine her emotional maturity level - next to nothing. It is one thing to be a math genius and another thing to be emotionally mature....her mind does not function properly because the two parts of her brain lives away from the other.

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  • sega31098
    9 years ago | pl

    Well a break up is likely to be a pretty emotionally significant point in one's life, even for men, so it's not surprising that he is crying about it.

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago | pl

    he followed you.........HOME!!!!!!

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  • davesumba
    9 years ago | pl

    Break ups are exponentially harder on guys than they are on girls.

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    • dragonfruit33
      9 years ago | pl

      so that means that guys are less superficial than girls, or at least LIKE the OP?

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