Is it normal for a best guy friend to make you feel inferior ?

There is this guy that is my best friends and we are friends with benefits. I never had a problem with him saying that girls were hot or that he would do them. That was until he made a comment that hurt me really bad. On my b-day he made a scene. There was a girl he liked there and he could not accept the fact that she had a boyfriend. They starting argueing so I was getting upset because all I wanted was a drama free birthday for once. Then I just got so upset I screamed and told the girl what should it matter because it is not like she is ugly like me since she got a few guys that want her. This made me feel bad since she has a few guys that want her and I can't even find one. Then my best friend said that if any guy would be dumb to think that. Yet what he said next made me feel like he just told himself he is dumb because he said if that girl was not there he would have sex with me. That got me more upset because that made me feel like I did not compare to this girl and that I am a last resort. Then I felt worse because he said my friends would have sex with me. So that got me more upset because lets face it guys use girls for sex so what does that have to do with me to cheer me up. That just makes it seem like he thinks that is all I am good for. Now when I see this girl and talk to her I feel that I am worthless that no guy in his right mind would go out with me unless I looked like her. what should I do? We are also in our early twenties.

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  • Show me a beautiful woman and I'll show you a man who's tired of fuck!ng her! It's not about looks it's about how you carry and present yourself. You need to learn to be confident and you're not gonna learn it by waiting for guys to conform you're beautiful. You are a beautiful woman no matter whT anyone says and once u finally see yourself as a beautiful person everyone else will also

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    • the saidest thing i think i look better than alot of guys yet I still dont get guys. to them I am just cool and not someone a guy wants to date.

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  • You need to find a whole new circle to run in.. U dont need to be around her if she makes u feel less than spectacular, and that astronaut hole of a bf needs to take a hike.. Why do u even have these people in ur life?? Girl, life is too short!!!

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  • God your "best friend" is a total ass!

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  • Just because he is a friend with benefits doesn't make him your best friend.

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    • It is not because we are having sex but because I can confide in him about anything and he does the same thing.

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  • You should find new friends cuz your too cool for them.

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  • guys find it a compliment if someone would have sex with you, its their way of saying you're attractive! Also, guys have different tastes, not every guy thinks that girl is hot. Do you think it was a mistake to become friends with benefits?

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    • I feel like it is now. Because now he gets upset when I don't want to hug him because he makes me feel like I can only be a guys last resort. That makes me feel like he gets disgusted with the though of touching me. I haven't meet a guy yet that says that this girl is not hot. These guys don't go for her because they do not think they have a chance. they have even told me that.

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