She only sees him once in a while, and he doesn't set boundaries for them. While their mother is "inattentive" and from the sound of it not a very good parental figure, he's there FOR them. Some boundaries may be good, but at least he connects with them(letting them "control" his life). So of course they feel good with him. How old is his other daughter? I actually wonder why only the 15-year old sleeps in his bed.
I think if my parents had been divorced, i would also have spent as much time as possible with my dad, including snuggling up in the evening and possibly falling asleep while talking...as long as there's no other indications that suggest something more, i doubt there's any reason to be alarmed.
Is it normal for a 15 year old to sleep in her father's bed?
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I think there's nothing wrong.
She only sees him once in a while, and he doesn't set boundaries for them. While their mother is "inattentive" and from the sound of it not a very good parental figure, he's there FOR them. Some boundaries may be good, but at least he connects with them(letting them "control" his life). So of course they feel good with him. How old is his other daughter? I actually wonder why only the 15-year old sleeps in his bed.
I think if my parents had been divorced, i would also have spent as much time as possible with my dad, including snuggling up in the evening and possibly falling asleep while talking...as long as there's no other indications that suggest something more, i doubt there's any reason to be alarmed.