In many cultures around the world families share the same bed. Sometimes multiple generations of family. Although I was never really raised that way, I was recently ill and my mother slept in my bed. And I'm over 25.
If the biological mother of the girl is inattentive, maybe the girl feels some sort of stability being with her father, and hence comfort by sleeping in his bed. If they were taking a bath together (not a shower, as I know families that shower together) or you walked in on something, then I would be creeped out.
But to me it honestly sounds like he's some sort of stability in her life. Have you offered for her to sleep with you? Maybe by giving her another adult/female view on things can break her from being so dependent on her father. But do it tactfully and gracefully. Be her friend first and then start to ask the questions or hint.
Or she could hate you, and knows thats by sleeping in his bed, you're not there taking her father away from her.
Is it normal for a 15 year old to sleep in her father's bed?
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In many cultures around the world families share the same bed. Sometimes multiple generations of family. Although I was never really raised that way, I was recently ill and my mother slept in my bed. And I'm over 25.
If the biological mother of the girl is inattentive, maybe the girl feels some sort of stability being with her father, and hence comfort by sleeping in his bed. If they were taking a bath together (not a shower, as I know families that shower together) or you walked in on something, then I would be creeped out.
But to me it honestly sounds like he's some sort of stability in her life. Have you offered for her to sleep with you? Maybe by giving her another adult/female view on things can break her from being so dependent on her father. But do it tactfully and gracefully. Be her friend first and then start to ask the questions or hint.
Or she could hate you, and knows thats by sleeping in his bed, you're not there taking her father away from her.
Girls are a mystery.