Is it normal for a 22 year old to be a virgin with no girlfriend?

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So here is my story! Please just hear me out...
Im a 22 year old black male from new york city. I was never the guy crushed on by the girls as a kid, in fact i remember my first crush ever laughed at me and took my gift when i told her i liked her. I got my first kiss in high school, the first girl i ever dated was freshman year and we didn't even do anything. I mean NOTHING! Lasted a month... Ive had only 3 sexual experiences. I didnt have my first sexual experience till junior year, and the girl was a real HS sleeze. She gave me a blow job and it was so bad, i was so grossed, and nervous. She wanted to have sex but i couldn't! Then there was my cousins friend who i made out with and almost had sex with in my room, we probably would have if i actually took my clothes off. And finally i got my first girlfriend senior year which lasted 5 months! We were messing around, i gave her oral, i wanted to have sex and i was really anxious and uncomfortable, i couldn't even get it up. SAD! That was almost 5 years ago! Since then i haven't had a girlfriend, real date, or sexual experience.

Im a social guy but not a social guy. I cant explain it. I didn't have many friends growing up and i spent a lot of time alone in my house. Even till this day i still follow this behavior. I have lots of friends now as an adult, but i never seem to want to go out. But when i do go out im very social and i have fun! I rather stay home play PC games then hang out with my friends.

Im a good looking guy, so in combination with that and not ever being seen with a girlfriend im seen as A) Gay or B) A f***ing loser... Im pretty sure im A)...

Anyway here are my pics... Im putting them up so people can see im not a hideously ugly... I blame my misfortune on the fact that im 5'6. Despite being charming and funny i cant seem to get laid...

IS THIS NORMAL!

Me :(
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  • codhubiv
    14 years ago

    Nobody knows you haven't got laid unless you tell them so. So just don't tell anyone and forget about it, it will happen when it happens - Rush it and you'll end up with some skank

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  • peterrabbyt2
    11 years ago

    Just jerk off and don't worry about fuckall or get a guy to jerk you off. there are lots of guys who will even suck you off.

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  • nb22x
    14 years ago

    hey man I'm like you, 22 year old black male,technical virgin. I'd say don't stress about it. Really, its better to not have std's or kids at this age. sex isn't that big of a deal anyway...bj's are better! good luck dude!

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    • sunshinemoonlight
      7 years ago

      lol are you flipping serious

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  • eddie97
    14 years ago

    Don't stress...

    By the way that you posted your story it seems sure that you will find someone and when you do you would make it more special because you are a virgin

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  • Jen118584
    14 years ago

    Girls your age are tough, lots of them aren't really looking for a nice guy. You're an attractive guy, maybe try to just relax and be yourself. Don't think about getting laid or getting a girlfriend. Play it cool and the ladies will be all over you. Girls like a challenge. They like to feel like they won a guy over because they're special, not because he's desperate for a girlfriend. Just let it happen naturally and have fun :)

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