It's hardly uncommon for there to be an age gap, usually with the man being older. But you are both very young and there is a larger gap lifewise between the two of you than there would be if you were 31 and she 27. She's still in hs and you are nearing full on adulthood. Don't expect much from this relationship. Too much is going to change for the both of you in the next two years for things to have much hope of lasting. And since there is such an age disparity and it places her at a disadvantage with regards to maturity, access to alcohol, status, etc. be sure to treat her with patience, consideration, and respect. It's all too easy for a girl to end up with a loser douche bag just because she's attracted to older guys.
Is it normal for a 21 year old guy to date a 17 year old girl?
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It's hardly uncommon for there to be an age gap, usually with the man being older. But you are both very young and there is a larger gap lifewise between the two of you than there would be if you were 31 and she 27. She's still in hs and you are nearing full on adulthood. Don't expect much from this relationship. Too much is going to change for the both of you in the next two years for things to have much hope of lasting. And since there is such an age disparity and it places her at a disadvantage with regards to maturity, access to alcohol, status, etc. be sure to treat her with patience, consideration, and respect. It's all too easy for a girl to end up with a loser douche bag just because she's attracted to older guys.