I don't think anything is wrong with it, a lot of your mid age couples have large age gaps my parents are 8 years apart and started dating when my mother was 16 and 30+ years later and both their kids are out of college and they are really well established themselves. I'm not saying 16 year olds mature or not for their age are ready for marriage but they have a understanding of dating. That just like any other relationship has to grow into a mature serious relationship. As long as the guy don't make the girl do anything sexually. And understands they are things she isn't going to understand at times due to her age then nothing's wrong with it. A 23 year old isn't looking to marry anytime soon usually. And they are some good guys out there still. The ones being negative either never experienced this, or wasn't any good themselves talking based off how they are or were. Older guys go for young girls sometimes a use truth is if you have good morals they arent very many 20 + year old single good girls . They all are taken already. I played 4 years of collegiate ball and had pretty girls my age at the time I picked my fiancée now who was 16 at time over them. Cause she was raised good, was mature for her age, and had more sense then the 21 year olds at the time. And I was in no rush, with time to wait on her to grow into what I knew she would be. Everyone needs to quit judging and stereotyping things into categories. Most guys who go after young girls are creeps losers who want one thing. But ever so often a good guy with a future comes along and sees potential of a good wife in the FUTURE and don't let her get away. And if I was a dad id much prefer the RIGHT 23 year old over a 17,18,19 year old punk who only will treat her like crap.
Is it normal for a 16 and 23 year old to date?
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I don't think anything is wrong with it, a lot of your mid age couples have large age gaps my parents are 8 years apart and started dating when my mother was 16 and 30+ years later and both their kids are out of college and they are really well established themselves. I'm not saying 16 year olds mature or not for their age are ready for marriage but they have a understanding of dating. That just like any other relationship has to grow into a mature serious relationship. As long as the guy don't make the girl do anything sexually. And understands they are things she isn't going to understand at times due to her age then nothing's wrong with it. A 23 year old isn't looking to marry anytime soon usually. And they are some good guys out there still. The ones being negative either never experienced this, or wasn't any good themselves talking based off how they are or were. Older guys go for young girls sometimes a use truth is if you have good morals they arent very many 20 + year old single good girls . They all are taken already. I played 4 years of collegiate ball and had pretty girls my age at the time I picked my fiancée now who was 16 at time over them. Cause she was raised good, was mature for her age, and had more sense then the 21 year olds at the time. And I was in no rush, with time to wait on her to grow into what I knew she would be. Everyone needs to quit judging and stereotyping things into categories. Most guys who go after young girls are creeps losers who want one thing. But ever so often a good guy with a future comes along and sees potential of a good wife in the FUTURE and don't let her get away. And if I was a dad id much prefer the RIGHT 23 year old over a 17,18,19 year old punk who only will treat her like crap.
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