I voted as "not normal", only because at that age most men should be a bit more mature and realize that they probably won't benefit from dating a young girl.
But, then there's a whole different side to this. I'm a 17 year old girl myself and I want to be with a man who's in his 40s. A lot of people think this stuff is a phase because they're ignorant and do not understand what the other person feels. This is how I view it:
A man is doing NOTHING wrong, no matter how old he is, if he crushes and fantasizes about a young girl, even if she is underaged. It IS a problem though, if he takes action and tries to get with her. But if he's just being harmless with these fantasies, I don't see why he has to be judged or hated for it. I can very well relate to those men as I come from the opposite/the same spectrum. Being a young girl and liking men 25+ years older is some HARD stuff to deal with. Nobody understands, everybody thinks you're mentally ill. But you love who you want in this world. I'm waiting patiently until I'm an adult before I start dating an older guy.
I can understand completely how an older guy who likes someone quite aways younger than him is weird. If he's actually trying to get with an underaged girl, then report his ass- that's wrong. Even myself as an underaged girl who likes older men, if one tried to get with me now I'd suspect he has bad intentions. But a man who has the self-control to wait until his girl is an adult is probably well-worth it, at least to me.
I don't know know much I know about this being an immature young teenager myself, but I tried.
question to Mrsickboy 50 what is it you like about men that much older.
Is it the money, I don't mean being whore like, just that they actually have disposable income instead of a crappy allowance like most guys around your age?
Is it the freedom, your with someone who has their own car, place job, ect and can do what they want?
Is it the maturity, someone who actually knows what they want in life?
Is it just a sexual thing, like thats what does it for you?
I'm just curious.
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I voted as "not normal", only because at that age most men should be a bit more mature and realize that they probably won't benefit from dating a young girl.
But, then there's a whole different side to this. I'm a 17 year old girl myself and I want to be with a man who's in his 40s. A lot of people think this stuff is a phase because they're ignorant and do not understand what the other person feels. This is how I view it:
A man is doing NOTHING wrong, no matter how old he is, if he crushes and fantasizes about a young girl, even if she is underaged. It IS a problem though, if he takes action and tries to get with her. But if he's just being harmless with these fantasies, I don't see why he has to be judged or hated for it. I can very well relate to those men as I come from the opposite/the same spectrum. Being a young girl and liking men 25+ years older is some HARD stuff to deal with. Nobody understands, everybody thinks you're mentally ill. But you love who you want in this world. I'm waiting patiently until I'm an adult before I start dating an older guy.
I can understand completely how an older guy who likes someone quite aways younger than him is weird. If he's actually trying to get with an underaged girl, then report his ass- that's wrong. Even myself as an underaged girl who likes older men, if one tried to get with me now I'd suspect he has bad intentions. But a man who has the self-control to wait until his girl is an adult is probably well-worth it, at least to me.
I don't know know much I know about this being an immature young teenager myself, but I tried.
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question to Mrsickboy 50 what is it you like about men that much older.
Is it the money, I don't mean being whore like, just that they actually have disposable income instead of a crappy allowance like most guys around your age?
Is it the freedom, your with someone who has their own car, place job, ect and can do what they want?
Is it the maturity, someone who actually knows what they want in life?
Is it just a sexual thing, like thats what does it for you?
I'm just curious.
That's a very mate answer. And very well rounded my dear ^_^
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Mature answer*