Is it normal for 20 year old girl to have never had sex

I'm a little embarrased to talk about this because I realize now that the 2 men that took turns giving me oral sex for 5 years must have been child molesters because I was only 14 when they made me love to maserbate with their mouths. One of them cought me masterbating & said here let me help you with that & I was so afraid and ashamed of myself that I just sat there then next thing I knew he was down there licking me and it felt much better than my hand & I soon got off better than with my hand so I kept letting him & his friend do me for like 5 years. That's the only sex I've had. I feel weird. Am I a virgin??

Is It Normal?
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  • Its definitely NOT normal. You should be on your 4th baby and moving into a trailer park by now. You have a lot of catching up to do.

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  • I don't to make a big deal out of it because it make me look like some kind of horny dog or somthing because I liked settind there for hours getting sucked on. I feel bad and kinda sick for letting old men do that, but I wanted it sometimes when they didn't and at least one of them would do it I think just so I wouldn't get mad. I think they moved because by the time I was 15-16 it was more like I demanded it

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  • Since you're only 20, you're likely still within the statute of limitations in prosecuting the men who molested you.

    I'd suggest contacting a lawyer.

    As for being a virgin, by the textbook definition you still qualify. Although even if you didn't I'd personally say you can call yourself one anyway.

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