Is it normal feel this way after too long away from him?

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I know its a bit confuse but last year I went to italy on a 20 day trip vacation and my bf rested here in our country. In the entire vacation I missed him and wanted to stay with him, but when I came back, I wasnt able to feel nothing... Love, fear, hate... Nothing
And we talked about this in the same day tha i felt myself this way. He said me that it is normal bcause he felt this in the same way more tha once and after a few weeks it has gone away and the love came back more intense...
When I'm with him I feel that I want to be wih him, and that love seems to begin to come back, but when the day ends and i'm not with him, when i'm alone, the love go away again but in minor intensity... I'm trying to believe that it will go away and I will love him again as ever, because i want to spend my entire life with him, i know this deep inside me... I cant believe that its over, that love used to be different, special and infinite and nothing in fact happened to change it... Only this =#*+% trip...
Sorry if it was a confuse text, but english is not my primary language :(
And I'm a bit desperate because. I dont wanna see him suffer any more for this and I want the things like it was before... :(

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  • rawrinator
    11 years ago | pl

    If you don't love him anymore you really can't force it, you just have to tell the truth before you get stuck in something that isn't right for you. It hurts, but it's better now than later. Perhaps you should take a break while your sort out some feelings, in time your heart will tell you what you're really feeling. Clear your head, then go back.

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  • iamwhoisayiam
    11 years ago | pl

    Scott m. Peck wrote the road less travelled series. In the original first book he touches this phoenomena. Its not abnormal and there is a psycological answer. Maybe that will help. However I keep saying feelings go away sometimes. It happens in marriage. However usually if you keep following the actions of love. The feeling tend to return.

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