Well I just say please, thank you, hello, nice to see you. Most my friends are really needy so they get upset if they do not all get a hug from everyone so I hug everyone once when I see them. If I pull back they get upset and ask what’s wrong.
I have a few friends who do not want date me but I have little contact with those friends anymore and so I’m stuck with the love dovey ones.
I would not care as much if I was not put under so much pressure and they would stop fighting but it is not working like that. Ironically they are all friends with each other too but they end up fighting over me so I feel bad.
So They like each other but fighting over me so I ended up picking the guy I did not want at all and I have the most control over. I did love having him around but I have not seen him anymore makes me sad.
Also everyone started to wonder why I would hug everyone except certien boys since they always try kiss me and the rest get mad and I feel like I have to babysit children.
I hate it so much. I hate things always end up this way. Sure I liked for once in my life chocolates on valentines which I never get but I had like 3 other guys after me aswell and I say no but they do not understand what "No thankyou means".
I have to be nice to one of them since he did favors for my family and my parents want me marry him. However I jumped out of this and he still will not take a hint even when I told him I was dating another guy who I infact kissed in front of him.
I don't know for sure because I'm not there to watch you do it and I only have your version of events to go by.
It's just something about the way that you describe this whole situation... I have a feeling that you are at least half-way responsible for the way these guys are treating you. Just make sure you're not sending mixed signals in the future (hugs/kisses/touching are a mixed message) and eventually you'll have nothing to complain about, that's all I'm saying.
IS it normal everyone of my male freinds ends up wanting to date me?
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Well I just say please, thank you, hello, nice to see you. Most my friends are really needy so they get upset if they do not all get a hug from everyone so I hug everyone once when I see them. If I pull back they get upset and ask what’s wrong.
I have a few friends who do not want date me but I have little contact with those friends anymore and so I’m stuck with the love dovey ones.
I would not care as much if I was not put under so much pressure and they would stop fighting but it is not working like that. Ironically they are all friends with each other too but they end up fighting over me so I feel bad.
So They like each other but fighting over me so I ended up picking the guy I did not want at all and I have the most control over. I did love having him around but I have not seen him anymore makes me sad.
Also everyone started to wonder why I would hug everyone except certien boys since they always try kiss me and the rest get mad and I feel like I have to babysit children.
I hate it so much. I hate things always end up this way. Sure I liked for once in my life chocolates on valentines which I never get but I had like 3 other guys after me aswell and I say no but they do not understand what "No thankyou means".
I have to be nice to one of them since he did favors for my family and my parents want me marry him. However I jumped out of this and he still will not take a hint even when I told him I was dating another guy who I infact kissed in front of him.
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I don't know for sure because I'm not there to watch you do it and I only have your version of events to go by.
It's just something about the way that you describe this whole situation... I have a feeling that you are at least half-way responsible for the way these guys are treating you. Just make sure you're not sending mixed signals in the future (hugs/kisses/touching are a mixed message) and eventually you'll have nothing to complain about, that's all I'm saying.
Good luck dealing with them. :)