Is it normal every other day is different for you and your "fling"?

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Its so weird, one day well be so into eachother and the next, we act like nothing ever happened. Its kind of awkward just talking like we dont know eachother and we have in the back of our heads, we hooked up last night. Sometimes hell take me home and i just say thanks bye when last night when he dropped me off, we were making out in his car. Sometimes i think, ok were not serious so thats why its all casual but still. Its a little too casual. We've hooked up and atleast have some consideration, not just act like strangers. I dont know how though, it just is what it is. Our "fling" is like bipolar or something lol. The hard part is though, that i actually do have feelings for him so its annoying and awkward whens its all casual like nothing happened and when we do hook up, its like weve been together forever. Sometimes well talk and flirt knowing something will happen later, and sometimes well talk and theres zero spark. Is this something others have? Is it even normal?

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  • lightgiver
    13 years ago | pl

    There isn't anything too casual about making out. It builds a bond that gets stronger each time. You wouldn't quite like it if he just suddenly decided to casually make out with another girl right? Why? Cause you got a bong with him.

    To me this casual dating is no different than these 1 week relationships you saw in your high school days. Sometimes it dosn't work and if you don't say you 2 are dating and are bf/gf well it dosn't hurt too much.

    But if its been going on this long you 2 should have a talk and move on to more regular dating.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    I don't know if it's normal, but if he doesn't have a girlfriend (if he's not cheating on her with you) then he most likely feels this awkwardness too. If you want to be his girlfriend and you're willing to risk the friendship (or whatever you'd call it) then ask him next time you're hooking up or flirting if he plans on taking this anywhere.

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  • dandelion0506
    13 years ago | pl

    As you can see every story has a reason. You are to see it through to the end then you know and grow in time. The flower dies and blooms brighter and bigger the second time. Try to talk to her about it then find the answer out yourself. There are better things to do then post this in iin!!!! Spend more time with her and understand yourself at the same time.

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