ofcourse he could have handled it better but you are forgetting the fact that the girl in this story was obviously a wacko. The fact that she didn't even pick up on the fact that he was ignoring her and that she was a 'despressing mess' to begin with should be enough of an indication that the girl was socially awkward and just couldn't handle the fact that he finally stopped listening to her BS.
Indeed not as a direct statement no, but when combined with passing time and letting the 'relationship' gradually fade, it is an effective way to make feelings go away. I have done such a thing, and even though I am not aware of her mindset and opinion at the time, when we (years later) discussed the issue she seemed quite alright with it.
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ofcourse he could have handled it better but you are forgetting the fact that the girl in this story was obviously a wacko. The fact that she didn't even pick up on the fact that he was ignoring her and that she was a 'despressing mess' to begin with should be enough of an indication that the girl was socially awkward and just couldn't handle the fact that he finally stopped listening to her BS.
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Indeed not as a direct statement no, but when combined with passing time and letting the 'relationship' gradually fade, it is an effective way to make feelings go away. I have done such a thing, and even though I am not aware of her mindset and opinion at the time, when we (years later) discussed the issue she seemed quite alright with it.