Hi, you were definately reasonable. She just sounds like a pure attention seeking drama queen. But in saying that, you may have seemed like the perfect boyfriend for her for how good you were to her so it must have bummed her out a lot and hurt when you turned her down so she took it real bad. But also in saying that, you can't help it if you don't feel the same way. You handled it right and still wanted to be friends, but she wanted to make it all about her, and that was her doing, not yours, so its not your fault that she wanted to act that way.
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Hi, you were definately reasonable. She just sounds like a pure attention seeking drama queen. But in saying that, you may have seemed like the perfect boyfriend for her for how good you were to her so it must have bummed her out a lot and hurt when you turned her down so she took it real bad. But also in saying that, you can't help it if you don't feel the same way. You handled it right and still wanted to be friends, but she wanted to make it all about her, and that was her doing, not yours, so its not your fault that she wanted to act that way.