A colleague was 18 when she met her (now) fiance of 40, a divorced father of two sons. Twelve years later, she's 30, he's 52 and they're about to get married. He's extremely physically fit, looks young, and has a young outlook. It works for them.
They're happy and good on them. Problem is, I think they're the exception. They're together because they kind of fit. He's not the creepy older guy who can't cope with women his own age. He just happened to meet someone of a different age that he gets along with. This is all according to her, by the way. I've never met him but I've seen pictures.
So, yeah, you came here and asked to be judged based upon a couple of ages. I know what people are going to say and 95% of the time, they are right. Maybe you're part of the 5%, maybe you're not. But you know that better than us. And also, if you're even asking us the question, maybe you're not ultimately convinced it's normal, either.
Is it normal dating an older man?
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A colleague was 18 when she met her (now) fiance of 40, a divorced father of two sons. Twelve years later, she's 30, he's 52 and they're about to get married. He's extremely physically fit, looks young, and has a young outlook. It works for them.
They're happy and good on them. Problem is, I think they're the exception. They're together because they kind of fit. He's not the creepy older guy who can't cope with women his own age. He just happened to meet someone of a different age that he gets along with. This is all according to her, by the way. I've never met him but I've seen pictures.
So, yeah, you came here and asked to be judged based upon a couple of ages. I know what people are going to say and 95% of the time, they are right. Maybe you're part of the 5%, maybe you're not. But you know that better than us. And also, if you're even asking us the question, maybe you're not ultimately convinced it's normal, either.