I think I have seen you grow a lot in this site. I remember when you first started posting comments here and I am pretty sure I recognized a few of the stories you posted. Yet, I never saw you as a "needy" person; I think that even when it seemed like you were going through bad moments, you always appeared to be quite self-sufficient. Yet again, seeing how you have turned into such a caring and wise person is really encouraging; as I want to become more positive as well.
Regarding the "clique" thing. I think that some people just expected to belong to a community by signing up into this site. Which is actually something normal in other sites. But well, this site isn't really the best to form a community, and I think that is actually something positive. I also assume that some are kind of jealous that some users have formed a circle; and some others are just too shy to try to enter this circle.
I never saw anyone here unapproachable, but I just never cared enough to become friends with everyone. I take really long breaks from this site sometimes, and the fact that the anonymity here is so strong, has made me reluctant to try to befriend other users. But yet again, I think that if you post good stories and good comments, people are nice to you in general; and it is not really necessary to be BFFs with everyone to get good feedback.
Is it normal Cliques and New Users
← View full post
Anime7,
I think I have seen you grow a lot in this site. I remember when you first started posting comments here and I am pretty sure I recognized a few of the stories you posted. Yet, I never saw you as a "needy" person; I think that even when it seemed like you were going through bad moments, you always appeared to be quite self-sufficient. Yet again, seeing how you have turned into such a caring and wise person is really encouraging; as I want to become more positive as well.
Regarding the "clique" thing. I think that some people just expected to belong to a community by signing up into this site. Which is actually something normal in other sites. But well, this site isn't really the best to form a community, and I think that is actually something positive. I also assume that some are kind of jealous that some users have formed a circle; and some others are just too shy to try to enter this circle.
I never saw anyone here unapproachable, but I just never cared enough to become friends with everyone. I take really long breaks from this site sometimes, and the fact that the anonymity here is so strong, has made me reluctant to try to befriend other users. But yet again, I think that if you post good stories and good comments, people are nice to you in general; and it is not really necessary to be BFFs with everyone to get good feedback.