I can somewhat understand why people feel this way, it's of course nothing to do with the behaviour of users on this site but from my experience a confidence thing.
Before I took a break from IIN I constantly found myself wanting to talk to and reply to comments of users but found myself withdrawing a little bit and just answering questions asked in the post without really interacting too much.
It's only really since I rejoined that I've almost forced myself to continue or start conversations or pm's or kik etc
For some really, really stupid reason I occasionally revert back to the shy guy who types a message, then deletes it.
As for the behaviour of IIN users I see no reason why people would feel excluded many newer users were mentioned in the favorite user page and as for charli.m I'd have to agree with anime I've always thought you were approachable, I feel many users are, it's a good community :)
When I read this before I was thinking up answers and missed the bit about what worries users.
Haha, it's funny, I yet again wrote a massive text, this time about my insecurities about myself and IIN and I deleted it before I posted.
This is a bigger problem than I let on in the prievious comment, I feel I have so many things to say to so many people and so many things to talk about but, anything meaningful or something I actually feel I need to say, well, I can never say it. Drives me fucking crazy
Just say it man, whatever it is that's on your mind. I'm here for you man, like if there's ever anything you want to talk about. I don't want you to feel insecure about whatever thoughts you may have. I don't want you to be scared of being judged, I promise I won't do that. You have my trust and ear, I hope you know that. I really hope that I'm stressing how much I actually care about you as a person.
I think you're right it probably is a confidence thing. I mean that makes a lot of sense since I'm sure plenty of people have probably typed something then instantly deleted it for fear of judgement. It has to be normal. I just wanted people to know that users are approachable. Oh and likewise, I've always thought you were a cool guy, a funny guy, and a plethora of other nice things.
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I can somewhat understand why people feel this way, it's of course nothing to do with the behaviour of users on this site but from my experience a confidence thing.
Before I took a break from IIN I constantly found myself wanting to talk to and reply to comments of users but found myself withdrawing a little bit and just answering questions asked in the post without really interacting too much.
It's only really since I rejoined that I've almost forced myself to continue or start conversations or pm's or kik etc
For some really, really stupid reason I occasionally revert back to the shy guy who types a message, then deletes it.
As for the behaviour of IIN users I see no reason why people would feel excluded many newer users were mentioned in the favorite user page and as for charli.m I'd have to agree with anime I've always thought you were approachable, I feel many users are, it's a good community :)
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When I read this before I was thinking up answers and missed the bit about what worries users.
Haha, it's funny, I yet again wrote a massive text, this time about my insecurities about myself and IIN and I deleted it before I posted.
This is a bigger problem than I let on in the prievious comment, I feel I have so many things to say to so many people and so many things to talk about but, anything meaningful or something I actually feel I need to say, well, I can never say it. Drives me fucking crazy
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Just say it man, whatever it is that's on your mind. I'm here for you man, like if there's ever anything you want to talk about. I don't want you to feel insecure about whatever thoughts you may have. I don't want you to be scared of being judged, I promise I won't do that. You have my trust and ear, I hope you know that. I really hope that I'm stressing how much I actually care about you as a person.
I think you're right it probably is a confidence thing. I mean that makes a lot of sense since I'm sure plenty of people have probably typed something then instantly deleted it for fear of judgement. It has to be normal. I just wanted people to know that users are approachable. Oh and likewise, I've always thought you were a cool guy, a funny guy, and a plethora of other nice things.
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Thanks man :)