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well, on this day i got dumped by my boyfriend, yes ove only been going out with him for what? two weeks yes i know dumb. well ive had huge feelings for him and i thught he was for a while because all the other girls he dated, lasted for a while....so i thought the same...well i got dumped over myspace...i cried in the bathtub and cut myself. is it normal?
Normal to be crushed! Not to harm yourself. No one is worth that!!! Be strong, your life is waiting for you!! Your beautiful babies, your handsome husband!! Hold on Hun, the best is yet to come. GL
Do not cut yourself over something like this. Do not. If you're having these thoughts over such minor problems, go talk to someone - like a therapist. It's normal to be hurt when someone breaks up with you, but you can't hurt yourself because of it. It was minuscule in the long run. Think about what's really important. http://www.marcandangel.com/ go here and see if it makes you feel better.
Please don't hurt yourself in any way. Imagine having scars and trying to explain them to the gorgeous guy that's waiting to meet you. He'll think you're a nut and won't hang around. Anyway, in a few months / years you won't even remember his name.
I swear it happened to me! I walked at least a mile with this guy chatting to me, through the city centre but I couldn't place him though he knew me so well. About 6 months later, I remembered it was a guy I used to go out with a few years before!
Don't hurt yourself because of this one loser pet, get out there and have a laugh with your pals and get a new one ;o)
if he dumped you over myspace, that lets you know right away he was not worth your time, and you can do much better than him. so don't be sad! and you should not hurt yourself!! please never do it again! you don't deserve that. no one does.
know how you feel sweetie, and I think its normal... I wa with mi boyfriend for 7months and oneday he dumped me, then three days later he had a new girlfriend... he said he wanted to marry me and have babies with me... And he said he cared bt he didnt I guess... I I layed in th bath for 2days and let mi self bleed :/ but nothink Good came of it :( life has to go on... How much you want it to end its hard to die xx
Oh, honey, no. It's not normal to want to hurt yourself because someone else hurt you. You need to talk about this. The urge to hurt yourself comes from you feeling like you don't want the pain you're feeling to affect anyone else or not feeling like anyone cares enough to share the pain with you (believe me, I *know*), but that's not a healthy way to let it out and you know that.
As for how you actually *feel*, it's absolutely normal. There's nothing wrong with how you feel, and there has to be someone you know of who will listen to you. A parent, a friend, hell, make an appointment with the counselor at your school (you can tell people you were called down there for being a bad kid so it won't touch your rep).
Please don't cut yourself. Even if it makes you feel better for a little while, you know that doesn't solve anything and you'll just feel bad again later, *plus* you'll feel guilty for cutting, so you'll just cut more. And I'm assuming you're not a doctor, so you don't know where all the nerves and stuff are. Think about it: this guy goes out with you for two weeks and here you are cutting... what if you accidentally cut one of the nerves in your arm and all of a sudden you can't use that hand anymore? That's the rest of your life right there. For two weeks? No way.
And I know that trying to talk to people about this is scary because they say a lot of scary stuff about people who cut from pain. We're called mentally ill and personality disordered and all kinds of other stuff. That's okay. Those are just the words they use to try and explain it to each other. That doesn't have anything to do with *you*. Those words can't make you into something you aren't. They're just words.
I hope you feel better soon, and please try talking to someone about it before you decide to cut again.
Honestly I think it's a stage your probably around 15? I would say it's not normal if you enjoy cutting yourself but I believe a lot of teens have experimented w cutting. I wish when I was ur age I realized that nomatter how awful things feel right now they will believe it or not get better. Try something more constructive to deal w your emotions like going into school looking like hot stuff, act like you couldn't be happier and ur glad he dumped you. Please don't hurt yourself bc cutting can take control of yourlife real quick and can turn into a serious illness.
wth wat a mofo breakin up on myspace he didnt even have the guts to tell u in person, but for real average girls jus go n bad mouth that dude with their girlfriends,cuttin urself is never normal no matter how u wanna look at it,u cant help it its makin u feel better,its only too bad u wasted all ur emotions n hopes on him
ur one sensitive n vulnerable person
he could ever possibly had known that? dont try imaginin being with that chick ur way better of without him
no need to cut yourself, you have the right to be sad but you should help yourself not harm yourself.
I had an ex boyfriend that started cutting after we broke up and it was terrible, so please, just don't.
i m also hurt coz i was dumped yesterday.....but i m trying to move on by listening "i will always love u" song and remembering the line that evrything in lyf is an experience take it with a smile..