Is it normal behaviour?

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Iv been seeing a guy for a few months and I really enjoy his comopany. We.We had one argument that nearly ended things but apart from that hes not bad.I was still angry with him because he never reallly makes an effort for me and isnt much of a talker.Anyway He came over a few days and we fooled around a bit which we usually do but this time he was completely different sexually.He was really aggressive to the point where I was actually shocked.I do love a bit of kink but this was actually really offensive and afterwards he was really distant and wouldn't let me touch him.Prior to this hes been really satisfying sexually and caring but now hes just changed and I really dont understand what I should do. Im really put off him after that experience sexually but i still care about him .Can anyone please give me some serious advice?

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  • Poes
    7 years ago | pl

    He is a useless piece of shit, no man has the right to treat a woman as an object merely placed on earth for his sexual gratification. If he cannot treat you with the respect and love you deserve, close your legs, deny him pussy and he will fuck off into the sunset on his own accord!

    Rather buy a vibrator to relieve the tension in your inner thighs until you find somebody who is deserving of yourself and your nooky!

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago | pl

    He sounds like a heaping pile of dog shit!

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago | pl

    I reckon he's still angry with you and it's causing more aggressive sexual behavior.

    The last bloke who treated me in this way ended up raping me

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  • last_december
    7 years ago | pl

    You both need to sit down and have a chat about why are things heading in these directions

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  • INN420
    7 years ago | pl

    maybe he just thinks you like aggresive sex

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago | pl

      I did mention before when he was just being nromally sexual that I do like to be slapped a bit or just a bit of kink in general but this was just unexpected and too far, really offending tbh.the things he was saying aswell were really disrespectful

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  • snarkygirl
    7 years ago | pl

    Tell him that aggressive sex is not your thing, be specific with the boundaries like " no hair pulling" and " no calling names".

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago | pl

    Talk?

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  • Fall_leaves
    7 years ago | pl

    Could be a number of reasons but he's not as invested or interested in you as you are in him. Something's bothering him but if you don't already know why he's behaving this way then you're not going to. He's shutting you out dude and it doesn't sound like he ever let you in as it is.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago | pl

      Yes completely agree that hes not as invested as much as I am ! Anyway , il just really cool things off

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