Is it normal be afraid to kiss

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I have hooked up with 3 guys they were all terrible hookups and they were all with strangers. I don't think I'm good at making out because I don't know what to do like with my tongue so I'm afraid to hook up with someone I know because I don't want people to know I'm not good at it. I also had a thing with a guy who was really hot and we really liked each other but I made sure it didn't go anywhere because I didn't want to have to kiss him and then have him find out I'm bad.

Is it normal to be afraid of people thinking you're a bad kisser?

What can I do to become a better kisser?

Do you have any tips?

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  • ccjigsaw
    10 years ago | pl

    If you find someone who cares about you, and you care about them to you'll be fine. I was my bfs first kiss and he Practically ate my face!! I had to like grab his head and stop him xD I think back on it and I find it adorable. After that I just.. showed him the ropes.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago | pl

      That's so cute! I'm like too scared for that I feel like I'd be judged

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      • ccjigsaw
        10 years ago | pl

        I think if you got yourself a boyfriend and told him you're afraid to kiss him cause you're afraid you'll be bad at it, he'd find it cute and be eager to try it out with you :) You'd feel better with him knowing and not being suprised about it too.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    10 years ago | pl

    Kissing isn't something you know how to do from the start. It's something you learn how to do.

    I'd recommend forget about the strangers, just be with someone you really care about. If the love is there then your partner will be too amazed that it's *you* kissing him or her to worry about your technique.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago | pl

    You know what's really gross? when you kiss someone who has bad breath. Thats real barfarama!

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  • Corleone
    10 years ago | pl

    I go wild when a girl nibbles my lip. But maybe that's just me, so take that piece of advice with a grain of salt.

    Other than that:
    Start out slow, ease into it. The longer you kiss, the more passionate you can get. Don't dart your tongue around like a spear, keep it soft. That's how I like it, and I think most people do. Just relax and enjoy the moment.

    Also, don't be too concerned about your kissing skills. That makes you anxious, and it's a moodkiller. I'm guessing there was some alcohol involved in your hookups with strangers. If so, then that's an explanation why things were a little clumsy.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago | pl

      I'm definitely over thinking this right now but when a guy sticks their tongue in my mouth like what do I do with my tongue this is so awk but like if I do anything with mine then they're just gonna be like pushing each other

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      • Corleone
        10 years ago | pl

        Just ease your mind when you're doing it. Don't be all technical, thinking "oh my God, what should I do know?!". Relax and enjoy the moment. It's not a disaster if you're a little clumsy, especially not if you're a little playful about it.

        Just don't avoid kissing someone out of fear of doing something wrong. If a guy's into you, he just wants to be close to you. He won't mind if you're a little inexperienced. :)

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